Throughout my younger years, I felt immense loneliness, which I think is something that many people experience when they are singled out for being different, whatever the reason. Other times, I simply felt extremely angry, exacerbated by the lack of consequences for the bullies’ actions. Ultimately, three things got me through it.
The first was simply making other friends. In the end, you’ll never win over the people who dislike you for what you are, but there are plenty of people who won’t care at all and will welcome you with open arms. The insults mattered a lot less when I knew that I had friends who liked me for who I was, and when they came to my defence I knew I did not have to face it alone.
The second was reading, especially in the early days – you are never alone with a good book, and the fantastical worlds I read gave me a great buffer from the anger I felt. The way the book’s protagonists overcame their problems taught me to not feel so sorry for myself and face things head on.
I became especially attached to young male characters that I could empathise with, especially those who overcame things on their own. One was the protagonist from the Saga of Darren Shan, who was the only young boy in a world full of older vampires. Gary Paulsen’s Hatchet was another favourite, where a boy crash-lands in the wilderness and learns to survive on his own.
Even with these brilliant, self-sufficient characters to read about, it was not enough – I wanted to create my own, even be the hero myself. So, writing became the third thing that got me through my childhood…
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Jets fans rented 12 billboards to make a terrible Tom Brady joke
firehose'Jets fans have paid for 12 of these billboards all over New Jersey. TWELVE. To make a #DadJoke. About Tom Brady.'
Money well spent!
Welp.
Never change, Jets fans. Never change. pic.twitter.com/3lp950JwMQ
— Bart Hubbuch (@BartHubbuch) May 12, 2015
According to the New York Daily News, Jets fans have paid for 12 of these billboards all over New Jersey. TWELVE. To make a #DadJoke. About Tom Brady.
SOMEONE TELL THOSE PEOPLE ABOUT TWITTER BEFORE THEY GO BANKRUPT.
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Verizon's Just the Latest Big Evil Media Conglomerate Waiting to Happen
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Verizon’s $4.4 billion bid for A OL isn’t just another whimsical moment in web investment weirdness. It’s serious. The deal creates a huge media-communications giant, just like huge evil media conglomerates before it — and, if you consider the facts, it’s possibly worse.
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Things We Saw Today: Don’t Forget to Vote Alison Hendrix, Orphan Black Fans - A trustee you can trust.
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Don’t you want a safe, friendly, nurturing environment where you can feel safe, friendly, and nurtured?
- Tom Hardy has a cryptic tease for some unknown, DC-related movie project after he had to sit out from Suicide Squad. (via Blastr)
- The new Muppets show has a time slot and everything! Tuesdays at 8PM! Oh, and so does the rest of ABC’s lineup or whatever. (via THR)
Now your backpack is impenetrable! (Throwing not advisable yet highly recommended.) (via Fashionably Geek)
- Sit back, relax, and enjoy Ayn Rand’s The Babysitter’s Club. Oh, and if you weren’t already going to read it in the voice of BioShock‘s Andrew Ryan, well… now you are. You’re welcome. (via The Toast)
- Public service announcement: Snoop Dogg thinks Game of Thrones is based on real history and watches it to study. (via New York Post)
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First Jem And The Holograms Trailer Is Truly Outrageous—In How Bad It Is
How A Virtual World Went To The Edge Of Apocalypse And Back
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This Scientific Paper Has 2,863 Authors — How?
Verizon, Sprint Agree To Pay Combined $158 Million Over Cramming Charges
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Texas Senate OKs bill allowing clergy to refuse same-sex marriages - Associated Press
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California attorney general granted more time to stop ‘shoot the gays’ ballot initiative
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How do wolves move
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The board unanimously passes the anti-harrassment policy and a dozen members resign and walk out.
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Leeroy Jenkins! World of Warcraft’s Favorite Viral Video, Meme Turns Ten Years Old Today
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By now you’ve no doubt heard the famed “Leeroy Jenkins!” battle cry, and possibly even seen the viral video of a World of Warcraft sequence gone horribly wrong, even if you have no idea what the heck is going on. That video turns ten years old this week.
Back on May 11, 2015, according to Business Insider, the famed Leeroy Jenkins video first showed up on an obscure video gaming forum. The video shows a handful of World of Warcraft (WoW) players discussing – in exacting detail – their plans for an upcoming sequence in one of the game’s dungeons. One player even “calculates” their odds of success (“32.33, repeating of course, percentage”).
And then the unthinkable happens: one player, “Leroy Jenkins,” apparently bored with all the talk, rushes headlong into the dungeon, shouting his name as his battle cry.
“Let’s do this! Leeroy Jenkins!”
Within seconds, everyone is dead, and Leroy’s fellow players are cursing him for not sticking to the plan.
The video was a gag, of course; there was no player named “Leroy Jenkins” who ignored his friends and cost them their battle. “Leroy” was actually a college student named Ben Schulz (who is now an electrical engineer), and his friends in the sequence are also acting. Here’s a hint: listen to the guy at (1:36) trying desperately not to crack up while delivering his lines (“Stick to the plan!”). And here’s another hint: there’s no actual way to calculate your odds of success (“32.33, repeating”) in a World of Warcraft dungeon.
But none of that mattered to the phenomenon that “Leeroy Jenkins” would become.
In those days, YouTube and Facebook were just getting started, and World of Warcraft was just a fraction of the cultural mainstay that it is today. No one had ever heard of a “viral video,” and a “meme” was something written about in academic journals.
Whether “Leeroy Jenkins!” changed all that is something for internet historians to debate, but one thing is clear: Leeroy has since become one of the internet’s most well-known, and well-parodies, memes. He’s become synonymous with rushing headlong into danger without giving a second thought to overwhelming odds.
He’s also become a beloved part of the game that made him famous, according to Shack News. Blizzard, the company that produces World of Warcraft, has hired “Leroy Jenkins” – er, Ben Schulz – to appear at World of Warcraft conventions, and have even worked the Leroy character (voiced by Schulz) into subsequent game expansions.
Like “Charlie Bit Me” or “Leave Britney Alone!,” “Leeroy Jenkins!” is one of those internet gags that you either “get” or you don’t. There’s no explaining the joke. But whether or not “Leeroy” is your cup of tea, there’s no denying that he’s become part of our collective consciousness.
Here’s to ten more years, Leeroy Jenkins!
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Alexandra Lange on 3D printers versus the sewing machine
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In Evgeny Morozov's recent New Yorker essay on the new makers, he quotes historian Jackson Lears' critique of the Arts & Crafts movement as "a revivifying hobby for the affluent." I'd say middle-class: (mostly) women who aren't seeing what they want, at a price they can afford, in the marketplace.
There’s an appetite for the "refashion," recycling an old dress or an adult T-shirt, and turning it into something new. Once upon a time, the use of flour sacks as fabric prompted grain-sellers to start offering their wares in flowered cotton bags. If some boutique grain company began doing that again, there would be a run on their product. Under the technology radar, there's a community of people sharing free patterns, knowledge and results, without the interpolation of brands, constantly obsolescent machinery, or the self-serving and myth-making rhetoric Morozov finds in Chris Anderson's Makers. There are the answers to the questions "Why bother?" and "How creative?" Rather than sewing being a cautionary tale, 3D printing can't become a consumer good until it learns a few lessons from why we sew now.
Number one: what's not available on the market. If you have a girl child in America, it is often difficult to find reasonably-priced, 100 per cent cotton clothing for her without ruffles, pink or purple, butterflies and hearts. If you go to the boy section, you run into an equally limiting set of colors, navy and army green, and an abundance of sports insignia. A full-skirted dress, a petite skirt, prints for the plus-sized – there are plenty of styles that are not novelties but, when not in fashion, disappear from stores. Online you can find patterns to make any of the above for less than $10, and fabric at the same price per yard. Online you can find step-by-step explanations, with photos, of how to make that pattern. That world of patterns is vast, constantly updated, and historically rich. Yes, sewing your own garment will take some time, but then you will have exactly what you want. That's why women bother.
The consumer-facing side of 3D printing is Thingiverse, where you can download a digital file (like a pattern) to tell your 3D printer what to print. This is a little different than sewing because, while you can choose your filament (at $43 per roll), you don't have much input. You are not cutting, pinning. You are not customising. And a skim of the offerings suggests not so much items not on the market, or even items desperately needed, but items to show off that you 3D printed something. Vases, figurines, intricate and unwearable wearables. Why spend the time or money? Even at the Makerbot showroom in Boston, they showed nothing that was useful (a jet-pack bunny) and few things that were beautiful (honeycombed Easter eggs). All objects, no problem-solving.
The only 3D printed object I have ever desired is the Free Universal Construction Kit, designed to allow one to attach Lego to Bristle Blocks to Zoob. It definitely solves a problem not addressed by the market. It's not on the market because the rival toy manufacturers have no interest in getting everything to connect. I still wouldn't want to print it at home: I would rather send the job to the Makerbot showroom, and let someone else mind the machine, because my input would be minimal.
Man Who Would Rather Go Blind Than Get Obamacare Now Going Blind
Who should save the sight of an uninsured South Carolina man who can’t afford eye surgery? That’s the question the Charlotte Observer asks in a story about a 49-year-old Republican who declined to sign up for Obamacare because he “prided himself on paying his own medical bills,” and is now upset that the Affordable Care Act won’t bail him out.
Luis Lang, a self-employed handyman from Fort Mill whose clients include the federal government, told the Observer he “knew the act required him to get coverage but he chose not to do so. But he thought help would be available in an emergency,” like the mini-strokes and deteriorating vision he suffered in February.
It’s not available though, because that’s not how insurance works.
New MakerBot CEO Explains Layoffs and the Company's New Vision
firehose"I'll be sitting at home. Maybe something broke; maybe my glasses. Maybe I want to reprint it and I'll go to Oakley, Ray Ban, whatever, Philippe Starck in this case, download the file, pay $3.49 for it, and print it at home. And then you will have to go to your Kinko's or your Fab Labs, your local 3D printing, if you want it in metal or plastics you can't have at home."
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i hate when i go up north and go to restaurants and the waiter comes to take my order and im like “do yall have sweet tea??” and theyre like “no sweetheart but we have unsweetened iced tea and we can give you some sugar packets!!!” llike no you fucking yankee because now the tea is already cold so the sugar wont dissolve in it and itll all just sink the bottom and be nasty learn basic fucking solubility this is 9th grade chemistry thats why sweet tea exists in the first place you fucking heat the tea up to make it and then while its still hot you add the sugar and then you chill it and its sweet fucking tea i bet you pronounce pecan like peecan too you four seasons-having piece of shit
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‘Off-the-Grid’ Parents Lose Custody of 10 Kids
firehose'Naysayers, meanwhile, say that Joe once threatened a neighbor with a gun, and that “Barn animals have better shelter than these kids,” according to a Facebook commenter. Even the family’s estranged son, Alex Brow, 19, joined the anti-Naugler voices on Monday, testifying against his parents in court. “I am very worried about them, and I hope that everything that can be done, that was done here, can help them move on and have a better life,” Brow told WLKY regarding his siblings.'
The Nauglers of Kentucky have temporarily lost custody of their 10 kids in a child-protective investigation. (Photo: Blessed Little Homestead/The Naugler Family)
Following a Monday court hearing, a Kentucky couple living what they call a “simple, back-to-basics life” in a rural, off-the-grid shack has lost custody, at least temporarily, of their 10 children. Joe and Nicole Naugler — who are expecting an 11th child in October — will remain under investigation by the Kentucky Cabinet for Health and Family Services (CHFS), while their kids, ranging in age from 3 months to 15 years old, will stay in the agency’s custody.
“Although we are sad our children will not be returned to us today, we have nothing to hide,” Joe Naugler wrote on the family’s Facebook page, Blessed Little Homestead. “We have cooperated with all requests made to us by CHFS and will continue to do so. We are confident that throughout this process, Nicole and I will be shown to be the good parents that we are and that our family will be reunited.”
The court’s decision came several days after authorities removed the children from their home, following an anonymous police complaint about the family’s living conditions — which allegedly include residing under a crude tarp construction, having no heat or running water, and having no septic system (which the Nauglers dispute). But many of their supporters believe they’re being targeted for their lifestyle, which includes living off the power grid, birthing children at home, and relying on “unschooling,” which is a less structured approach to homeschooling.
The case is just the latest of its kind to raise national questions about Child Protective Services overreaching and flouting parental rights. Other cases grabbing the national spotlight recently have included that of the Meitiv family in Maryland, investigated by CPS for allowing their children to walk unattended to a nearby playground, as well as that of the Stanleys, in Arkansas, who had their seven children removed from the home in January over a dispute related to a mineral supplement.
Nicole Naugler is pregnant with her 11th child. (Photo: Blessed Little Homestead/The Naugler Family)
“My reaction to this case is that CPS and those with power in our society tend to make decisions based on what they view as normal or not normal,” says David DeLugas, executive director and general counsel for the National Association of Parents, which aims to guard parent-child relationships. “But,” he tells Yahoo Parenting, “the same protocol should be employed in all situations: Are the children hurt? Are they in imminent danger of being hurt? If the answer is no, then we should ask the question — we should all ask the question: Why do anything?”
A spokesperson for CHFS in Kentucky tells Yahoo Parenting, “The Cabinet for Health and Family Services cannot confirm or provide any information about Child Protective Services investigations, as that information is confidential by law.” A receptionist at the Breckinridge County Sheriff’s Office also would not provide any information, telling Yahoo Parenting that there is a “gag order” regarding the Nauglers, because this is “a juvenile case.”
The Nauglers did not respond to a request for comment made through their website. But their Save Our Family website answers questions about their living conditions, explaining that they have a wood stove for heat, an “open cabin” made of metal and tarps, a composting toilet, a pond with potable water, and a generator for power. They explain that they are naturopaths who would “seek professional medical care if it was needed,” and that they make an income from a pet grooming business. They describe their lifestyle as “intentional.”
An interior shot of the Naugler family home. (Photo: Facebook)
Attorney T.J. Schmidt of the Home School Legal Defense Association, which counseling local attorneys regarding the family’s educational philosophy, explains to Yahoo Parenting, “It is an ‘unschooling’ method, which can mean many things, but it usually a very child-directed form of education, with parents actively encouraging curiosity and related learning experiences.” But in the Nauglers’ case, he notes, “I don’t think schooling is the primary concern.”
To help with the Nauglers’ legal fees, as well as upgrades to their home, a family friend has launched a Go Fund Me page, which has raised more than $41,000 in just five days. On the website, campaign organizer Pace Ellsworth says she met the family through investing in their dog-grooming business in 2014. “They live a very simple life. They garden and raise animals,” she writes. “They are industrious people trying to teach their children how to live right. Their 10 children are homeschooled on the homestead. They contribute to the success of the family crops and livestock, all while learning about the amazing beauty of life.” Ellsworth goes on to explain that when Nicole Naugler attempted to leave her property with two of her children when sheriffs arrived, she was arrested for disorderly conduct and resisting arrest.
Online supporters say the family should be left to raise their kids as they see fit, with one Facebook commenter noting, “Who should be setting the standard for what are acceptable living conditions? People who have only ever known first-world living? The fact is that the majority of children in the majority of the world have grown up or are growing up in conditions that are excessively sub-par to what we are accustomed to in the United States. And that doesn’t mean that they’re bad conditions; they’re just different.”
Naysayers, meanwhile, say that Joe once threatened a neighbor with a gun, and that “Barn animals have better shelter than these kids,” according to a Facebook commenter. Even the family’s estranged son, Alex Brow, 19, joined the anti-Naugler voices on Monday, testifying against his parents in court. “I am very worried about them, and I hope that everything that can be done, that was done here, can help them move on and have a better life,” Brow told WLKY regarding his siblings. That left Joe and Nicole “heartbroken,” as they noted on their Facebook page.
The kids. (Photo: Blessed Little Homestead/The Naugler Family)
Whatever the reality in this situation, DeLugas questions the drastic decision of taking the children out of their home. “Should the remedy be to take the children away, which has a harm level of its own, or provide what is missing?” he asks, suggesting the possibility of bringing in food or other supplies. “How much damage are these children enduring right now?”
According to Christine James-Brown, CEO of the Child Welfare League of America, an advocacy organization established in 1921 to set the standard for child welfare, “It’s always a call,” and never an easy or popular one, for children to be removed from their homes.
“The child welfare system, particularly in the last 10 years, has had an overall push to remove fewer children — but to safely keep these children at home,” she tells Yahoo Parenting. Some of the difficulties for a CPS worker making the assessment, she says, include cultural differences, the fact that “community norms around parenting differ and change,” and also that neglect and poverty are often improperly conflated. Those making decisions must decide if there is a health risk, a risk of imminent danger, and whether or not a situation is chronic or temporary.
In the case of the Nauglers, James-Brown says it would be important to meet the family where they are, as long as it doesn’t cause the child any risk. “It’s a difficult call,” she says, “and it should be.” She notes that CPS workers are “underpaid, undersupported, and go into the worst situations,” and that the other side of the boundary-crossing criticism is one worth pondering.
“A CPS worker might say, ‘OK, the kids are fine, we can’t bother the parents’ — and then three months later, the kids are dead. The community would be up in arms,” she says. “I’d rather err on the side of caution.”
MIT Study Suggests Current Solar Power Tech Is Good Enough #SolarPower
firehose'current crystalline silicon photovoltaic technology is capable of delivering terawatt-scale power by 2050. That would be many times larger than Topaz facility California that generates 550 megawatts. While there is certainly room for improvement in efficiency, the MIT study says that the biggest hurdle isn’t tech, it’s investment.'
MIT Study suggests current solar power tech is good enough. by Terrence O’Brien via engadget
The standard line about solar power is that while good in theory, the technology just isn’t there to keep our lights on and our Netflix streaming. But a new study from MIT (PDF) suggests that’s not the case. According to the massive report (an epic 356 pages) current crystalline silicon photovoltaic technology is capable of delivering terawatt-scale power by 2050. That would be many times larger than Topaz facility California that generates 550 megawatts. While there is certainly room for improvement in efficiency, the MIT study says that the biggest hurdle isn’t tech, it’s investment. The authors called out the lack of funding for research and development, but focused more on poor governmental policies. Subsidies generally go to other energy sources, like oil and natural gas, and trade policies set by the federal government have driven up prices by restricting imports of cheaper solar parts in order to boost domestic production.
AT&T home Internet falls short, years after promising 100% coverage
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AT&T is seemingly close to winning approval of its acquisition of DirecTV, in part because it has promised to use the merger's financial benefits to expand home Internet service.
But this isn't the first time AT&T has claimed it will expand broadband service if the government approves a merger. Nearly a decade ago, AT&T promised 100 percent broadband coverage throughout its entire territory if it was allowed to buy BellSouth, yet today offers little or no service to millions of people in the 22 states where it operates wireline facilities.
Two opponents of AT&T's latest merger have petitioned the Federal Communications Commission to delay the DirecTV buy and investigate AT&T for perjury, saying the company falsely claimed to have lived up to its promise. The perjury allegation might be a stretch, as AT&T argues that it did meet the obligation, at least under the definition of broadband that was used at the time it purchased BellSouth. But the petition and various statements made by AT&T illustrate how many gaps there are in AT&T's network today.
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What are the favorite drugs at different festivals?
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DrugAbuse.com analyzed over 3.5 million Instagram posts to find out which drugs were most frequently alluded to at 15 different music festivals.
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