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05 Aug 17:34

buttermybooks: s0wingseas0n: fitness-fits-me: Then get a...



buttermybooks:

s0wingseas0n:

fitness-fits-me:

Then get a better job, don’t go out in public if you don’t want people to look at you, and get over yourself. Don’t be surprised if you get shamed for doing something shameful. & “feeling” harassed is a hell of a lot different than “being” harassed. Facts over feels.

This just in, its always a woman’s fault apparently. Ladies, you need to work harder then you already do in order to get equal pay. You should also stay home forever because it’s your fault you’re being harassed on the street!

Victim blaming and misogyny are some of the ugliest traits and I’m sorry you don’t know any better.

^^^^ preach

05 Aug 17:20

"We need to say that women have sex, have abortions, are at peace with the decision and move on with..."

“We need to say that women have sex, have abortions, are at peace with the decision and move on with their lives. We need to say that is their right, and, moreover, it’s good for everyone that they have this right: The whole society benefits when motherhood is voluntary. When we gloss over these truths we unintentionally promote the very stigma we’re trying to combat. What, you didn’t agonize? You forgot your pill? You just didn’t want to have a baby now? You should be ashamed of yourself.”

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How to Really Defend Planned Parenthood - The New York Times (via rachelfershleiser)

I WANT TO SCREAM THIS ENTIRE PIECE FROM THE ROOFTOPS UNTIL THE END OF TIME.

(via notnadia)

05 Aug 17:19

This is a pretty clever scam, particularly because it has a...

ThePrettiestOne

Is it teapartyism? I think it's teapartyism.



This is a pretty clever scam, particularly because it has a built in filter to separate credulous people from those who will easily give up their money.

05 Aug 16:58

(photo by this_geig)

ThePrettiestOne

Hit it.



(photo by this_geig)

05 Aug 16:57

Vocal Dog Says ‘Mama’ Before Human Toddler Can Respond to His Mother’s Request

by Lori Dorn
ThePrettiestOne

True story:
First day in kindergarten, the teacher asked us all to tell the group about ourselves. I said my name, said I had a brother... teacher wanted to know if he was older or younger, and I said older. She asked "Oh, so you're the baby of the family?"
I said no, that was the dog.
My mother forgave me for so MANY things over the course of my life, but THAT was not one of them.

A vocal Australian Shepherd quickly responded to his human‘s request that the word “Mama” be said in order to be rewarded with a yummy treat. Unfortunately, the request was actually for the toddler sitting next to him, who couldn’t get a word in edgewise. It turns out, however, that the clever canine was rewarded with a treat after all.

For the many concerned individuals claiming that the dog from “Dog Says Mama, Baby Can’t” didn’t never got a treat, here is one brief clip of just one bite he got from that night

via reddit

05 Aug 16:46

"This is a smear campaign pursued with all the obsession of a small child or a serial killer - yet..."

“This is a smear campaign pursued with all the obsession of a small child or a serial killer - yet it’s influential enough that Congress launched a full investigation into the claims. When one of the most powerful political bodies in the world can be swayed by a group with so little credibility, how can anyone take it seriously? Jaded politicos might interject at this point to say that no one does.
 
But of course, this was never really about ‘dead babies’. It’s about vilifying an organisation that provides affordable healthcare to women – contraception, cervical cancer screenings, breast exams and, yes, abortions.
 
Abortions, which take up just 3% of Planned Parenthood spending, none of which is federal. But presidential hopeful Rand Paul vowed to use ”all legislative vehicles at his disposal“ to force a vote, while Ted Cruz pledged to “eliminate” its state funding.
 
This is just one in a long line of assaults on women’s reproductive rights – from the Texas bill so famously filibustered by Wendy Davis to the attempt to limit abortions to six weeks in North Dakota. Meanwhile, thanks to the Hobby Lobby ruling, private firms can opt not to offer contraception in workers’ health plans under Obamacare on religious grounds.
 
This explains why so many senators seem able to overlook the screaming irony that family planning services prevent abortions, and that more restrictive abortion policy laws aren’t associated with lower abortion rates.
 
But when has evidence mattered? Not in the past, and as the latest vote shows, not now.
 
It was only ever about ideology. It’s about restricting women’s right to choose what to do with their bodies, and it’s about winning presidential primaries. And with the election circus in sight, there’s more of this to come.”

- ‘Planned Parenthood sells dead babies’ is just the latest anti-abortion conspiracy. Allegations made against the family planning
services provider may seem shocking, but they’re just another attempt to
erode women’s rights in time for the presidential election.
05 Aug 15:43

fishingboatproceeds: Jeb Bush is right. We don’t need half a...



fishingboatproceeds:

Jeb Bush is right. We don’t need half a billion dollars for women’s health issues (which is around $3.15 per American woman per year). We need much, much more. 

In the U.S., the disparities in women’s health care between rich and poor women, and between white women and women of color, are just absolutely astounding.

We know that in the U.S., poor women diagnosed with breast cancer are more likely to die of it than rich women.

And we know that black women are almost twice as likely to die from cervical cancer than white women.

Why? According to the National Cancer Institute, “The disproportionate burden of cervical cancer in Hispanic/Latino and African American/Black women is primarily due to a lack of screening. In an effort to understand this disparity in cervical cancer screening, NCI conducted a study of regions within the United States where cervical cancer incidence rates are high. They found that cervical cancer rates reflected a larger problem of unequal access to health care.”

We need more public investment in women’s health to close these gaps. Making access to pap smears and other screening measures more expensive will worsen health disparities in the U.S. and will result in the death of more poor women.

05 Aug 14:31

Gawker Here’s Proof That Black Lives Matter Protests Are Working | Gizmodo I Wrote A Bot That Won Tw

by Jane-Claire Quigley on Kinja Roundup, shared by Whitson Gordon to Lifehacker
ThePrettiestOne

*flinches while clicking on Gawker link*
OK, it's not TOO terrible. Sadly, the last line is a mistatement:
"Now all we need is some meaningful policy change."
No, that's not ALL we need, it's the first thing on a VERY long list of things we need.

05 Aug 13:43

Today has been canceled, due to rain.

by Georgia Dunn

BREAKING CAT NEWS 121

05 Aug 12:38

fuckyeahsavagesistas: STORMS (and Amazon) at San Diego ComicCon...



fuckyeahsavagesistas:

STORMS (and Amazon) at San Diego ComicCon - 2015

See more Chasing Daylight Cosplay here:

https://www.facebook.com/chasingdaylightcosplay

Photo: David Ngo

OH MY GOD.


AMAZING.


>faints

05 Aug 11:49

*it starts raining*

*it starts raining*
me: yes
*lighting appears*
me: yES
*thunders explode*
me: YES
*raining intensifies*
me: YEEEEEEEESSSSSSSS
05 Aug 11:48

Ruth Bader Ginsburg Calls 'Choice' An Empty Concept For Poor Women

Ruth Bader Ginsburg Calls 'Choice' An Empty Concept For Poor Women:

profeminist:

“Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg said the concept of “choice” is an ephemeral one for low-income women who live in states that pass laws limiting access to abortion, as they may not be able to afford to travel to a state with less onerous restrictions.

The lack of reproductive freedom is a remaining barrier to gender parity, the justice said at a Duke Law event Wednesday evening. Advocacy organizations and groups that fund abortions have pushed the idea that being “pro-choice” includes fighting to end the decades-old Hyde Amendment, which bans federal funds from going toward Medicaid coverage for abortion except in limited circumstances. One in four women on Medicaid who would have abortions if the Hyde Amendment didn’t exist instead carry an unwanted pregnancy to term because of the prohibitive cost of the procedure, the Guttmacher Institute notes.

The justice alluded to this new reality as Mississippi’s last clinic fights to remain open and providers battle restrictions that could close all but nine or 10 clinics in Texas:

“There’s a sorry situation in the United States, which is essentially that poor women don’t have choice. Women of means do. They will, always. Let’s assume Roe v. Wade were overruled and we were going back to each state for itself, well, any woman who could travel from her home state to a state that provides access to abortion, and those states never go back to old ways … So if you can afford a plane ticket, a train ticket or even a bus ticket you can control your own destiny but if you’re locked into your native state then maybe you can’t. That we have one law for women of means and another for poor women is not a satisfactory situation.”

Read the full piece here

More Ruth Bader Ginsburg posts on Profeminist

05 Aug 11:47

salon: Watch Elizabeth Warren utterly destroy the Senate GOP

ThePrettiestOne

Yeah, I'm gonna share this EVERY DANG TIME it shows up in my feed.

05 Aug 11:45

Not all women: The targets of contemporary drag culture

by T.Walpole

Content Note: This posts discusses various forms of transmisogyny and TERFs

2Photo taken at the Napoli Pride Parade in 2010

On Tuesday, Lisa Wade posted a piece, asking some important questions about drag- Is it misogynistic? Should it be allowed in LGBT safe spaces? How can pride organizers enforce drag-free pride events, if such an idea is useful? The good news is that many of these questions are already being asked in some circles. The bad news, is that outside of these circles –where specifics are unknown and the cis experience takes centre stage– such questions can lead to some harmful conclusions.

First some basics. Wade contends that a recent Glasgow Free Pride event “’banned’ drag queens from the event, citing concerns that men dressing up like women is offensive to trans women.” The event didn’t ban drag queens, but rather decided not to have any drag acts perform on their stage, but even this decision has now been reversed. In any case, the initial decision to go without drag performances was not made because of offence caused, as Wade says, but rather because the Trans/Nonbinary Caucus of the event felt that it would “make some of those who were transgender or questioning their gender uncomfortable”. Wade’s misunderstandings seem to come from having used the Daily Beast article on the matter as a source rather than the actual press release from free pride.

The title of Wade’s essay, and the repeated references to “girlface” in the essay itself, not only misunderstood the critiques levelled at drag, but also conflated blackface and drag. This misconception is appropriative of black struggle- it stems from conflation of the two separate histories, one of which was a major tool in the subjugation of black people across America and another which grew as part of queer (then, gay) liberation in a diverse, working class environment, led by women of colour. Comparing the two of them is highly disingenuous.

It is an argument that is about as novel as it is accepting of trans people’s existence. Sheila Jeffries, among many other TERFs, is infamous for using this line of argument to capitalize on the widespread condemnation of blackface in her efforts to attack trans women. Wade is, whether she intends to or not, using this dog whistle in her essay.

Getting a few facts wrong (Which is understandable if you are not part of these conversations. The Daily Beast got it wrong too and this is why allies are usually asked to take a seat in these debates.) and using terminology that is usually reserved for deeply transphobic arguments are somewhat superficial problems that lay on the surface of a much bigger problem: the centering of cis feelings on trans issues. Wade seems to think that the biggest problem, with the Glasgow Free Pride decision is that drag parodies femininity and womanhood.

While this is true in the general sense, drag is understood in the trans community to be oppressive because of the central conceit of the parody: that the performer, while affecting womanhood, is “actually a man.”

It’s about the bulge in the dress, the errant chest hair and the deep voice from the sculpted body. The fact that they’re “always PMSing” is a joke about how they don’t have uteruses. Their stage names, often punning on genitals (“Conchita Wurst”), act to center not their femininity, but the “failure” to produce a cis femininity. This was the drag that the gay media was insisting be reinstated, and that Glasgow Free Pride allowed on their stage again when they reversed their decision.

Drag is not monolithic –both historically and sociologically, different drags have and do exist– which is why Glasgow Free Pride specifically critiques “cis drag” (drag performed by cis people) as making people uncomfortable.

Many of the drag queens of color who led S.T.A.R. and Stonewall were not people who played a woman on stage or in a bar for a few hours a week, but people who lived their lives as women, and their drag is fundamentally different from that of people who perform in televised competition today.

Maybe these drags belong on a pride. Maybe there are decolonised drags which would be welcome. But contemporary western cis drag isn’t about femininity, it’s about the drag queen’s failures to produce an impression of cis womanhood, the upshot of which, also produces a caricature of trans womanhood, seen by society as a flawed womanhood.

Given this, it is possible to see drag as an attack on transwomanhood first and foremost, and cis women more as collateral damage in a long controversy within LGBTQIA+ communities. Glasgow Free Pride understood this, and this is why the call came from their trans caucus, not their women’s caucus.

Writing a post which centers the debate on cis women while spending a minimal time on trans women derails a conversation that should be about the transmisogyny of contemporary drag. It is an issue which is actively causing damage by perpetuating stereotypes and, yes, making pride parades unwelcoming for trans women and other maab trans people.

Wade should rest assured that the “conversation” she calls for is, actually, happening. It happens in trans communities all the time. It bubbled over into the mainstream for a few days, and trans people lost a safe space in a radical pride alternative in the process. What she’s actually asking is that the conversation become permanently legible to cis women by focusing on the minor issues that effect them, rather than the transmisogyny of drag.

T.Walpole is on twitter. More info at drcabl.es/awesome/. She originally wrote this post for Cyborgology.

(View original at http://thesocietypages.org/socimages)

05 Aug 11:34

Wednesday, August 05, 2015

ThePrettiestOne

I used to be Lemont, but these days I'm Susan.

Candorville by Darrin Bell for August 05, 2015
04 Aug 23:24

salon: Watch Elizabeth Warren utterly destroy the Senate GOP

04 Aug 23:15

autism problem #254

being afraid to talk about the bad parts of being autistic in case people will yell at you for having internalized ableism

04 Aug 23:13

wolvensnothere: pungent-petrichor: notyourexrotic: mslorelei: ...





wolvensnothere:

pungent-petrichor:

notyourexrotic:

mslorelei:

Clippy, the animated assistant in Word, is well known as one of the most hated software features ever released. Now we know why Microsoft released it – because the male engineers didn’t listen to female user feedback. “Even Early Focus Groups Hated Clippy. Women told Microsoft the animated paper clip was leering at them. The software company didn’t listen.”

OMFG CLIPPY WAS DESIGNED AS THE ORIGINAL MANSPLAINER

THIS MAKES THIS MEME EVEN BETTER

Baaaaahahahahahahahaaaa

HOLY. SHIT.

04 Aug 23:10

salon: Watch Elizabeth Warren utterly destroy the Senate GOP

04 Aug 22:52

mausspace: fuck summer i want it to be dark and misty and frigid and october

ThePrettiestOne

Too much sunlight out there. There's no WAY that can be healthy for a person.

mausspace:

fuck summer i want it to be dark and misty and frigid and october

04 Aug 20:47

Cops Say Video of Them Mocking a Disabled Woman Violates Their Privacy

by Ashley Feinberg
ThePrettiestOne

You put a uniform on, you are open to public criticism.

This past June, three Santa Ana police officers were suspended after a video surfaced of them joking about kicking a woman in a wheelchair “in the fucking nub” and eating (what appears to be) weed-infused edibles during a raid of a medical marijuana dispensary. And now, those same cops want to ban that video from ever becoming evidence—because they didn’t realize they were on camera.

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04 Aug 20:18

Another health care fail, in ovarian cancer treatment. Best in the world, my ass.

by Aaron Carroll

There are some days I just want to quit. From today’s NYT:

In 2006, the National Cancer Institute took the rare step of issuing a “clinical announcement,” a special alert it holds in reserve for advances so important that they should change medical practice.

In this case, the subject was ovarian cancer. A major study had just proved that pumping chemotherapy directly into the abdomen, along with the usual intravenous method, could add 16 months or more to women’s lives. Cancer experts agreed that medical practice should change — immediately.

Nearly a decade later, doctors report that fewer than half of ovarian cancer patients at American hospitals are receiving the abdominal treatment.

So we have a treatment that is proven to work (unlike say, Vitamin D for so many things), but we’re underusing it. Why? The article highlights a number of reasons. It’s harder to give drugs into the abdomen than it is to give them intravenously. Some doctors still don’t believe the results. And, yes, it takes longer and uses generic drugs, so oncologists would make less money doing it. Also, there’s this:

Dr. Markman said that when a treatment involves a new drug or a new device, manufacturers eagerly offer doctors advice and instructions on its use. But this treatment involves no new drugs or devices, so no one is clamoring to educate doctors about it. They are on their own to learn, and to train their nurses, a commitment that will take time and money

We live in a world where financial incentives work and are employed liberally. But for so many things that matter, there are simply no ways to incentivize the right behavior. The system just isn’t build that way. No commercials will ever be run for this therapy. No company reps will ever push it. There will be no fancy meetings about it. No paid monographs. No lobbying by industry groups. And it costs docs financially to do it.

At some point, we will have to start addressing things like this. We can talk about “pay for performance” all we like, but we know the administrative data we measure aren’t looking for things like this. I can scream from this blog all day, but until we can stop fighting the old battles over health insurance and start to discuss how to reform the actual delivery of health care, I fear things aren’t going to get much better.

BITWMA!

@aaronecarroll

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04 Aug 19:56

emchughes: saintcaffeinated: I keep my spirits up with a...

















emchughes:

saintcaffeinated:

I keep my spirits up with a different motivational background every day.

Will I get in trouble at work if I start using these as my desktop background, y/n

04 Aug 19:34

Police truncheon texts the officer’s mother when it is...





Police truncheon texts the officer’s mother when it is used

Russian artist Dmitry Morozov has designed a prototype truncheon that sends a text message to the police officer’s mother every time it is used, in an attempt to prevent police brutality.

The Antenna baton is equipped with a network-connected module that sends the words “Mom, I hit a man” as an SMS message to the police officer’s mother whenever it is used.

04 Aug 17:26

pungent-petrichor: notyourexrotic: mslorelei: Clippy, the...

ThePrettiestOne

Dear GOD I can't stop wanting to SLAP that thing off my monitor.





pungent-petrichor:

notyourexrotic:

mslorelei:

Clippy, the animated assistant in Word, is well known as one of the most hated software features ever released. Now we know why Microsoft released it – because the male engineers didn’t listen to female user feedback. “Even Early Focus Groups Hated Clippy. Women told Microsoft the animated paper clip was leering at them. The software company didn’t listen.”

OMFG CLIPPY WAS DESIGNED AS THE ORIGINAL MANSPLAINER

THIS MAKES THIS MEME EVEN BETTER

Baaaaahahahahahahahaaaa

04 Aug 17:24

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04 Aug 16:31

theroguefeminist: gooberascendant: gorgoon: Today I was talking to my dad and I referred to...

Courtney shared this story from Super Opinionated.

theroguefeminist:

gooberascendant:

gorgoon:

Today I was talking to my dad and I referred to myself as his son(I’m genderfluid btw) and he said
“Today’s a Son day huh?”
And I was like “yeah”
And he was like “huh, I thought today was a Saturday, not a Sunday”
And I just laughed for like 5 minutes

Diversity only makes dads stronger. More powerful.

the dad jokes are evolving

04 Aug 15:26

There is no plan M.

ciiriianan:

Not in Parker’s system. They use other ways of keeping track of what plan they’re on. There is no plan M. In plan M Hardison dies. That is unacceptable.

There are plans where Eliot dies. They tend to be backups to backups to backups, but they exist. There are some goals (Hardison’s survival, most pressingly) that Parker would willingly sacrifice Eliot for. He knows. (He wishes her own survival made the list.)

There are plans where Parker dies. They are also backups to backups, but they exist. There are many things Parker would be willing to die for. (Hardison. Eliot. Possibly even Nate or Sophie, but they don’t figure into the plans these days.)

Even after the kids are born, there is no plan where Hardison dies. Not even to save the children.

There’s an absolutely pragmatic reason for that.

Both Parker and Eliot think that Hardison’s kids would be better off dead than raised by monsters.

If Hardison dies by violence, if Hardison is killed, if there is someone to blame, and Eliot or Parker is still alive -

The world will burn.

There are some things you can never be clean of.

And the vengeance they would exact would be such a thing.

04 Aug 15:11

#AliveWhileBlack is the heartbreaking response to...

















#AliveWhileBlack is the heartbreaking response to #CrimingWhileWhite

The hashtag #CrimingWhileWhite became a platform to illustrate what often happens when white people engage in criminal activity. It was a powerful moment, as white people openly acknowledged that they don’t face nearly the same punishment or brutality experienced by their black counterparts. But despite the good intentions of those who participated, many others felt like the hashtag detracted from conversations about the value of black lives.

In response to that first trending hashtag, Jamilah Lemieux, senior digital editor for Ebony magazine, started #AliveWhileBlack.

04 Aug 15:09

ciatri: 3fluffies: mufasamonsta: tahthetrickster: i really like looking at google image searches...

ciatri:

3fluffies:

mufasamonsta:

tahthetrickster:

i really like looking at google image searches for “firemen rescuing cats” or something because you get super cute pictures like

imageimageimageimage

AND THEN THERE’S THIS ONE

image

“THAT’S RIGHT TWAS I that set the house ablaze!!!”

Dying.

Every fucking time I know what’s at the bottom and every time I still lose my shit.