Sex Toys - SeriouslySensual

So, if you've never enjoyed the feeling of a butt plug then let us explain why they're such a hit.

They offer pleasure to both men and women, so whatever your gender or orientation your guaranteed an explosive experience.

The anus in both sexes is full of thousands of little nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated.

Butt plugs are amazing little toys that allow you to explore new erogenous zones. If anal sex is a new thing for you then these will ease you in perfectly. They loosen you up for new things, so take it slow and steady, you have to walk before you can run.

So what are butt plugs all about?

Well they are exactly what it says on the tin. They plug up your butt. ;-) It's sole purpose is to make you feel good as inside your butt holds an amazing array of pleasure.

The key to anal play is relaxation.

Before i buy a butt plug, what do i need to know?

Just ensure that the particular butt plug is made out of a body safe material. there are some novelty items out there on the market that are really not suitable. Some of these cheaper sex toys are made of materials that will leave unwanted chemicals with your body. Just check this before getting too excited!

Below we have chosen one of our best selling anal sex toys so you can rest assured it has been tried and tested.

PRECIOUS METALS
SMOOTH SILVER
BUTT PLUG-LARGE

So here's the first of our Anal sex toys, and there's a good reason for it being top of our list!

The little puppy offer a luxurious feel to your anal play. The Precious Metals Smooth Silver Anal Plug will glisten into your partners eyes whenever you turn your back on them. The diamond detail will definitely catch their eye even if your bare skin doesn't!

It comes in three sizes we've chosen the largest to review, we like to push you to your limits. Beginners might want to ease in with the small size 13cms x 4.6cms.
This anal butt plug is so elegant, well designed and truly the anal plug of all anal plugs.

Its curved top will allow it to be easily inserted and the larger bulb shape will enjoy its pleasure every step of the way.

The plug can be enjoyed both in solo sessions and also when playing with your partner at the helm. The weight oozes quality and luxury and is guaranteed to add thrills and pleasure.

It comes with it's own bag for storage and you're safe to use any lube with it.

Here are the main features:

• It has a pointy tip for ease of insertion with a wider base for your safety
• It is decorated with a beautiful Jewelled base
• the shape makes it easy to clean because of it's smooth surface
• It can be used for temperature play, just check the temperature beforehand
• Perfect for both beginners and also the more advanced of you 
• Your safe to use it with  water-based, silicone-based or oil-based lubes
• It is supplied with a drawstring bag for travel privacy

Buy the PRECIOUS METALS SMOOTH SILVER BUTT PLUG-LARGE

SVAKOM VICK NEO INTERACTIVE APP CONTROLLED PROSTATE MASSAGER

The second of our best selling anal sex toys is the Svakom Vick with neo interactive app.

The main reason for this being high on our list is that fact that this stunning prostate massager can be app controlled which means your hands free and in the hands of your lover. The Feelconnect3.0 app is easy to install and even easier to use.

It's gets even better though, for solo play it even connects to 2D videos for added excitement.

If your looking for the next best business opportunity then this also ticks the box. Reason being it's interactive with your webcam and can be controlled by your fans! As you get more excited you'll get even more excited by the money rolling in!

There are 7 different vibration settings and 5 levels of intensity powered by two small but powerful motors.

Here are the top features you're going to love:

• It can be controlled from long distance.
• It can be connected to 2d videos
• It's webcam interactive
• It's waterproof for showers and bathing
• It has 7 vibration modes
• It has 5 levels of intensity
• It's rechargeable via usb for ease
• It arrives complete with it's own carry bag

If you are using iPhone, please search"FeelConnect 3" on Apple Store

If you are using android system, please click this link to Download PHOENIX NEO APP(android)

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SPECTRUM RIBBED
G-SPOT GLASS DILDO

Number three is the Spectrum ribbed g-spot glass wand. The Spectrum is the range of dildos by Loving Joy that are made out of glass. They glass is non-pourous and each are created a piece of art.

The shaft of this dildo is ribbed offering new sensations for exploiting. Both ends are suitable for insertion, so you'll need to pay and see which you prefer. At one of the ends you have a single bulb tip that is curved perfectly to tocuh your g-spot in just the way it likes. The other offers a double bulb that will add an extra amount of pleasure as it slides in and out.

Being glass, it can be warmed or cooled for an added element of temperature play.

To finish off you can use it for vaginal play or anal play, or even both!

Feel safe in the knowledge that it is Hypoallergenic. The material and shape make it hygenic and easy to clean.

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LOVING JOY TRIPLE
RIPPLE ANAL BEADS - PINK

Triple trouble with this little gem. It's beautifully designed and crafted out of silicone that is hypoallergenic. This material offers a smooth and velvety experience and the three beads that increase in their size allow an increased pleasure the further they are inserted. The silicone allows you to heat them up or cool them down in water depending on the sensation you're looking for. We recommend you try both!

The end has a ring so that you can control the insertion and the extraction. This make sit very easy to control so again start slowly and experiment with the speed and different sensations it offers.

Here are the key features:

• The anal beads have three bulbs for extreme pleasure
• The silicone is super soft and flexible
• The size of the bulbs range from 2.5 to 3.5 inches
• The finger loop has been designed as part of the plug for ease of extraction

Buy the LOVING JOY TRIPLE RIPPLE ANAL BEADS - PINK here

LOVING JOY ANAL
LUBRICANT 250ML

Every sex toy benefits from so lube which i why this just had to be in our top 10 anal products.

This is anal lube designed by Loving Joy, specifically designed for anal play. The lubricant is made from a Thick Water-based formula.

It doesn't stain and is paraben free.

You can relax in the knowledge that it is vegan friendly and Hypoallergenic.

Unlike other silicone lubricants it's safe to use with your sex toys and condoms.

Whatever anal sex toy you end up going for, this really is a must have for increasing the pleasure you'll be having.

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LOVING JOY
ANAL DOUCHE 225ML

Before you start exploring anal play you'll want to be clean and feel fresh full of confidence. An anal douche is the way you'll do this.

Once you've used this you'll only have one thing on your mind... the orgasmic sensations a butt plug will be providing you. It's not a big issue, pop off to the toilet and fill with water. simply insert it and squeeze. Voila nice and clean and rearing to go!

With the 225 ml Loving Joy Anal Douche, becoming clean is easy peasy!

The following feature will make it a must have:

• The douche hold 225 ml of water.
• It comes with it's own removable tip
• The tip made out of ABS
• The Bulb is manufactured out of high quality PVC
• The insertable length of the douche is: 6 cm

BUY THE LOVING JOY ANAL DOUCHE 225ML

FURRY FANTASY
RAINBOW TAIL BUTT PLUG

Introducing the The Furry Fantasy Rainbow Tail Butt Plug.

It's one of the most fun butt plugs we have at SeriouslySensual. It's tear drop shape allows for ease of insertion. Pure quality.

It's made of aluminium alloy and therefore can be used with all types of lube. Water-based, Oil-based and silicone.

The material and shape make it easy to keep clean and you can heat it up or cool it down in water for temperature play.

the most unique part is the rainbow tail that is made from Faux fur and has a length of around 36 cms. When it's inserted you can tease your lover with a little wiggle from side to side! It never fails!

Once you're done with the fun, clean it and put it away in its own storage bag for next time. Oh, and there will definitely be a next time.

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FIFTY SHADES FREED DEEP INSIDE RECHARGEABLE CLASSIC WAVE VIBRATOR

Now for somethign a little more direct! Introducing the Fifty Shades Freed waterproof classic wave vibrator.

This compact little vibrator looks like a classic but is by far predictable.

It's armed with seven 7 different vibration modes and 3 speeds that provide stimulation like you've never experienced.

The girth and the length of it have been carefully designed to provide you with hours of pleasure.

It has it's own travel lock so you're safe when you turn up at AirPort security.

Plus this little vibrator has a ribbed outer sheath for hours of extra pleasure. We we say hours we mean hours due to it's ability to be recharged by usb. It doesn't get easier than that now does it! You'll have around 150 minutes for every 180 minute charge.

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ANEROS EUPHO SYN
TRIDENT PROSTATE MASSAGER

Now for the very unusual looking Aneros Eupho Syn Trident Prostate Massager.

It's been designed for targeted massage of the prostate. But don't let the little tip put you off, it's all you will need. The aneros is made out of thick silicone that offers a rigid but smooth experience when inserting.

For those of you out there that have stronger sphincter muscles this will be for you. You can contract whilst it's inserted for additional pleasure. Even experience anal play goers will discover new heights of orgasm.

When you squeeze you muscles in makes the Aneros pivot and therefore tease and tantalise your P-Spot. When relaxing the Aneros will pivot back. Repeat over and over until you explode.

The added benefit of the Aneros Prostate Massager is that by stimulating the prostate in this way you will ejaculate more meaning a much stronger orgasm.

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ANAL ADVENTURES
BASIC PLUG KIT BLACK

INTRODUCING THE ANAL ADVENTURES BASIC PLUG KIT BLACK:

This is the perfect set for beginners who's main goal is to become a real pro at anal play.

The set includes three different sized butt plugs in black so that you can work your way up through the sizes until you get to the big boy at a whopping 6.5inches tall by 4.4 inches wide.

They are all tapered to allow easy insertion and extraction.

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There's absolutely no way you'll be going to bed alone tonight! So which of these fantastic anal sex toys will you be taking with you?

Rabbit Vibrators are a must for around 80% of women who cannot climax with just penetration, this why the well now Rabbit vibe are so loved by all. It hit the stage with its appearance in sex and the city.

The unique element of a rabbit vibrator is that not only does it stimulate the g-spot but at the same time it also teases the clitoris.

They'll typically have a raised tip which has been carefully designed to replicate the feeling of the penis head hitting the G-spot with every move. They tend to have two motors, one for the clit and one for the g-spot giving you more personalised control over your orgasm.

If you one of the unlucky ones who haven't experienced experienced the power of this vibe then you've been missing out.

They offer what we call a blended orgasm. This happens when both of your erogenous zones are stimulated at the same time.

They are women's most popular sex toys. Below are ten of our best selling vibrators for every budget.

HAPPY RABBIT RECHARGEABLE
WAND VIBRATOR BLACK

This well designed rechargeable rabbit vibrator is the ultimate combination of a wand vibrator but with little ears. This powerful bunny has ten vibrations and three power setting that together are guaranteed to bring you to orgasm.

This magnificent vibe is not named the Happy Rabbit for nothing. It's power comes in two forms, from the ears and from the shaft.

It's been carefully designed with the user in mind. The shaft has been designed with grip in mind and the handle will allow you to point the power in all the right places throughout the most magnificent orgasm.

The ears are beneficial to both yourself but also to your partner. You can tickle both of your erogenous zones at the same time! double the trouble!

The fact is rechargeable means you can take it everywhere you go. This rabbit vibe loves water so take it into the shower or relax in a bath with your new found friend.

It won't even embarrass you when going on holiday. It comes with a travel lock meaning you won't be embarrassed at airport security.

It loves a little lube but just remember only use water based lubricants r your little friend will start to melt. You're the one that's meant to do the melting!

Buy the HAPPY RABBIT RECHARGEABLE WAND VIBRATOR BLACK

HAPPY RABBIT MINI EARS
RECHARGEABLE RABBIT FINGER
VIBRATOR PURPLE

Introducing the Happy Rabbit Mini Ears Rechargeable Rabbit finger Vibrator is a Luxurious rechargeable (via USB) clitoral vibrator. It has three powerful speeds and 9 different vibration patters for a truly customisable orgasm.

It's flexible and thick ears surround the clit for an amazing stimulation session.

The body has been designed to allow you to aim all the power to the right place providing hours of pleasure.

Where ever you are int he world, you can take your new little friend with you
with its USB charger and travel lock.

Again, it's been designed to be taken into the shower and bath time due to it being totally waterproof.

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SVAKOM ANGEL WARMING
RABBIT VIBRATOR PINK

The Svakom Angel Warming Rabbit Vibrator is armed with two powerful motors for double pleasure. This little beauty offers both Clitoral stimulation via the small arm and G-spot stimulation via the bigger thicker shaft. The power is out of this world.

Just as you thought it couldn't get any better it has a heating function that provides a more realistic sensation especially when your on your own on those cold nights.

It's been manufactured our of silicone making it smooth to the touch as very easy to keep clean. We're big advocates of hygiene.

Between its power settings and vibration modes you'll have 36 different frequencies at your fingertips meaning you can achieve more intense and realistic orgasms.

You'll never get caught out, whatever the situation due to its whisper quiet sound levels, usb rechargeable functionality and it's waterproof design. This should defiantly be high on your list of possible rabbit vibrators.

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FIFTY SHADES FREED LOST IN EACH
OTHER RECHARGEABLE RABBIT
LOVE RING

Fancy something a little bit different? Well here it is! If your wanting to share a little stimulation with your lover then this will do the trick.

You're now handing the power and control over to the male with this vibrating cock ring.

He simply slides it down his shaft, with the little rabbit ears pointing upwards. these powerful ears will rub against your clit whilst he thrusts his penis deep inside you.

There are seven vibration patterns and three different speeds he can use against you! There's no escaping this orgasm or three.

The design of the ring is stretchy so the cock ring will fit all shapes and sizes. A little tip from us, get a little lube involved in your sex play!

The Lots in each other rechargeable rabbit love ring is also equipped with a travel lock, for safe flying and the rechargeable batteries will off you 90 minutes of play before you'll need to plug it in. Should give you enough time! ;-)

FIFTY SHADES FREED LOST IN EACH OTHER RECHARGEABLE RABBIT LOVE RING

JESSICA RABBIT
ULTIMATE XXTRA VIBRATOR

Now for one of the old favourites, The Jessica Rabbit Ultimate. Loving Joy have outdone themselves again, it's even better than the first design. Can you believe it?

The designers know how much you all love the vibrations patterns and speed settings so they feature in this rabbit too but they always are looking to improve.

So these clever guys have now inserted a small bullet into the shaft back which also vibrates in time with the ears of the rabbit. The perfect combination!

WOW we hear you say! This not so small bunny has to be tried to be believed. For those of you that like it big, you won't be disappointed!

Ladies, get your hands on this one today!

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FIFTY SHADES OF GREY
GREEDY GIRL RECHARGEABLE
MINI RABBIT VIBRATOR

Now for the few of you that like somethign a little smaller in length then the greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator might just do the job. It's small and chubby!

It comes with all the usual mod cons but packs a real punch for the size. It'll fit perfectly in a small purse for discreet fun on the move.

The ears will achieve serious stimulation levels and guaranteed orgasms like never before.

Both your clit and your g-spot will be pampered silly with the easy to handle Rabbit vibe. The three speeds and seven vibration settings will make sure of that!

It's hard to believe but this awesome little rabbit loves water, has more power than the Duracell bunny and is homed in its very own satin storage bag. This is one to watch!

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SVAKOM ALICE
G-SPOT RABBIT VIBRATOR

Alice is one of our most elegant rabbit vibes. She's armed with dual motors plus dual stimulators on top that double your pleasure every time she is in your grasp.

She's stylish and gorgeous! Alice is made form the the highest quality silicone skin thats's waterproof and will slide into you effortlessly.

She has twin motors under the bonnet which will stimulate inside and outside at the same time. Her eight modes of speed and pulsation is guaranteed to bring to you new orgasmic height every time.

She'll never let you down, she's 100% waterproof and made using 100% green tech. Alice’s body is sleek and smooth for pleasure and satisfaction beyond anything you've ever experienced.

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LOVING JOY DUA
INTERCHANGEABLE VIBRATOR
WITH 2 ATTACHMENTS

The Loving Joy Dua will allow you to experience a world of possibilities. The Dua is something completely different. It comes with 2 different heads that are interchangeable. This means you have double the fun. There's a fitting that turn the due into a wand style vibrator for sensual massage and then there's the rabbit attachment that allows your clit to be tickled into a frenzy. Massage yourself into submission by allowing the vibes to eradicate the stress in your body or swap heads to the ears and enjoy orgasmic pleasure with multiple clitoral and vaginal simulation. You'll be able to forget reality and embrace the orgasmic sensations of the Loving Joy Dua. The possibilities are endless.

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ADRIEN LASTIC G-WAVE
RECHARGEABLE G-SPOT
RABBIT VIBRATOR

The G-Wave has a wavelength all of it's own. It delivers new levels of stimulation with its amazing flexibility. It delivers three different sensations. Clitoral, G-spot and then both combined. The flexible clitoral stimulation gently moves back and forth caressing your clit.

The ribbed bottom has been designed specially for easy insertion and removal.

This rabbit is so gentle even on it's most powerful setting. You've got 10 quiet settings that will get your lips quivering. You can set it to soft for a steady teasing sensation or you can up the speed to an intense rapid vibration.

It's armed with 2 extremely powerful motors. there is one in the shaft and one tucked inside the clit stimulator that provides you with a much more precise sensation.

You will have 140 minutes of complete ecstasy and with the addition of some water-based lube on the top you'll intensify the experience even more. 

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FIFTY SHADES OF GREY
PLEASURE OVERLOAD
GREEDY GIRL PLAY BOX (5 PIECES)

Last but not least you have the full kit brought to you by the Fifty Shades of Grey ultimate collection. This set is definitely designed with couple in mind.

There's the Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibe with flexible rabbit ears delivering a staggering three speeds of vibration and then there's  further three speeds and nine patterns in the shaft.

Then there's the bullet vibrator that just needs 1 x AAA battery (sadly this isn't included).

Keeping you busy there's a single speed couples love ring ( This will require 2 x LR44 (again these are not included)

And finally to keep you under control there's soft handcuffs and a padded blindfold that will keep you in the dark!

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There's absolutely no way you'll be going to bed alone tonight! So which of these fantastic rabbit vibrators will you be taking with you?

Nothing makes a great relationship go sour than boredom. Ever look at your partner and wondered where all the passion, love and excitement have gone? Well, you’re not alone. The flames in a passionate relationship usually fade in as little as 12 months.

So how do you turn the heat back on? What are the steps to reignite the passion? Here are some useful tips on how to spice up your bedroom.

1. Try New Sex Positions

An easy yet effective way to make your sexual life sizzle. If your man is not interested in trying new things, then you may have to take the bull by its horn. You don’t need your man’s permission before trying it out. Just lead and he will follow suit. If you’ve never taken charge in bed before, do that now. Experiment with a new sex position to spice up the heat in your sexual life.

2. Explore Your Fantasies

Every single soul has sexual fantasies. For the fear that their fantasies may sound weird to their partner, some people keep mute. Partners should learn to talk about their sexual fantasies. You don’t have to feel ashamed! The truth is that your partner also wants to explore his fantasies. Consider role play with different sexy costumes that you think might turn you on.

3. Take a Shower Together

The next time your man goes into the shower, give him a little surprise and join him 1 or 2 minutes later. It doesn’t have to be sex. You can give him a deep sensual kiss or wash him. To make this tip more effective, it must be used sparingly.

4. Introduce Sex Toys

One way to achieve new insight into your sexual life is to use sex toys. You can spice things up in the bedroom using a sex toy. No matter your preferences, there is a sex toy for you. Make the bedroom a lot hotter by using sex toys during foreplay. All you need do is to find that toy that you both find comfortable. For those who don’t dare to walk through the door, you can get high quality sex toys from seriouslysensual.co.uk at discounted price and delivered directly to your doorstep discreetly.

5. Sensual Massage

What more could be better than ending your day with a soothing, sensual massage. This is one way to spice up your sex life. Make your partner feel relief from the day’s tension and stress by running those soft, gentle strokes across her skin. Don’t forget the candles and soothing music at the background. Where your hand goes afterwards is your decision alone.

Boredom will not only mess up your sex life but also your love life. Try something new in the bedroom today. Use these tips to make your sex life and relationship fun.

Thinking about trying bondage for the first time?

You certainly aren’t the only one, with more and more people being interested in trying out this fantastic kink.

Bondage is one of the easier components of BDSM culture to try for the first time, as many people may already enjoyed some bondage in the shape of handcuffs or retraining their partner to the bed. 

However, there is a lot more to bondage than meets the eye, and most beginners feel an understandable amount of trepidation when it comes to being restrained or restraining others. But bondage doesn’t need to be daunting for beginners - it can be an amazing experience when done right.

Knowing the various bondage toys to use, how to safely tie certain body parts, knowing each other’s preferences and limits, and avoiding any accidents are some of the main questions’ bondage newbies have. 

So, let’s take a closer look at the dos and don’ts of bondage for beginners to ensure you have the best (and safest) time possible!

Establishing Consent 

As part of BDSM culture bondage often involves role-play where one person is submissive and the other is dominating. With this, the lines of content are blurred, with safe words being used to establish limits when getting tied, spanked, tickled etc. However, it is a good idea for beginners to establish the level of consent during a bondage session before the even get started. For instance, if you want to start at a comfortable pace you should always make sure consent remains strict - no means no in these situations. You may want to add some role-play aspect into these early sessions. For example, you can agree that there will be a certain degree of struggle involved for the person being restrained. Always establish all areas of consent with your partner before trying bondage. That includes who is being tied, who is submissive, if there is any roleplaying involved, whether there are safe words or straight-forward yes/no consent etc.

Safe Words 

While you may not be ready for safe words from the off-set many want to go in headfirst and really embrace the BDSM experience. For these situations it's important to establish a clear safe word - or several safe words. A safe word is basically another word for saying no, stop, or slow down. Because there are different levels to bondage you may feel multiple safe words are a good idea, so try setting one for no, one for slow down, and one for stop. Your safe words shouldn’t be related to sexual activities either. Sometime entirely out of context often works best.

Understand the Body and it's Sensitives 

This is important in bondage for a few reasons. The first is because you should know what part of your partners body may suffer during the bondage, such as an area where the is a long-term injury or condition - think damaged knees, dodgy backs, weaker joints etc. Knowing this is important as you don’t want to cause unnecessary damage during when applying a restraint, which is only going to put you both off the experience if it exasperates a current problem area. Secondly, you need to be aware that some parts of the body are more sensitive to nerve damage than others. For instance, the knees and elbows are usually the most sensitive to damage, so be aware of this when applying restraints to reduce the chances of hurting them, which is more likely when you aren’t experienced using restraints. Oh and don't forget the nipples, they are a very sensitive area to investigate. View our nipple play accessories collection here >>

Safety First 

Using ropes and other restraints is certainly a thrilling experience but only when done safely. It is easier for beginners to get injured from applying too tight a rope or not using the right type of knot, so always take safety precautions before getting started. A good rule of thumb for tying with rope is there should be enough room to fit two fingers when under the rope after it’s applied. It’s a good idea to always have scissors on standby just in case someone ties the restraints too tight however.

Be Aware of Tingling 

Whoever is being tied up during bondage needs to be aware of a tingling sensation in their body, which is a sign that restraints are too tight or that the position is quite uncomfortable. It mostly occurs in the hands, feet, fingers and toes, so keep an eye out for it and tell your partner. You should be okay for around 20-minutes but after that it’s probably a good time to change positions, loosen the restraints, or even switch roles. Rope should never be too tight - you want enough space to wriggle and struggle, with the rope able to move.

If you’ve tried your hand a bondage before you probably know how much fun it is.

Bondage offers a great chance to add a new dimension to your sex life and if you are familiar with the experience then we highly recommend you take things up a notch!

Bondage has many levels to it, so we’re going to take a look at some of the ways to enhance your bondage session with some fun new additions - read on to find out the top bondage tips for pros!

Bondage toys for Professionals

Communicate What You Want 

All good bondage starts with good communication, so be sure to talk with your partner if you’re looking to add something new to proceedings. This allows both of you to know what you want to try out, whether it’s a more advanced restraining technique, adding a new type of toy to the fun, or maybe even switching roles for the first time. Always talk about what you each want to ensure you all get what you want from the experience. Understanding each other’s wants and needs is a must for bondage pros - don’t be afraid to say what you want!

Start Slow and Build from There 

Just like when you first tried bondage, anything you want to add should be done slowly. For instance, if you want to be spanked while you're tied up then don’t start out with a massive paddle or flogger - try using a hairbrush or even just the hand. Start slow and get comfortable with things, building from there into a much more intense activity, but never feel pressured to go too fast too soon. Plus, a slow and steady build up is a great way to work towards an all-mighty crescendo! Check out our bondage collection >>

Blindfolds and Bondage Go Hand-in-Hand  

Being tied up or tying someone else up is seriously kinky, but why add even more kinkiness to things by introducing a blindfold? Blindfolded bondage is one intense experience, ramping things up to a completely new level. Not only is the person restrained but also blind, making every touch, kiss, spank, and movement intensely powerful. Better still, start using different items to draw a reaction, such as ice cubes, melted chocolate, a tickler, or even some candle wax. Buy blindfolds from SeriouslySensual.co.uk >>

Spanking is Great Fun

Now, if you haven’t already tried spanking during some bondage then you are seriously missing out! The lack of control when you are tied down and being spanked is incredibly titillating, even if you aren’t too into pain, as there is something seriously arousing about being spanked when you’re restrained. Those that enjoy a bit of spanking during bondage will be happy to know there are several ways to increase this pleasurable sensation.

It’s all about the different spanking toys, so be sure to try out some different ones to see what works well. Some of the best spanking tools beyond hands include whips, paddles, canes, crops, and floggers. Just remember to spank at a level your partner is comfortable with as it can be quite painful when done a full force. Shop paddles and whips from SeriouslySensual.co.uk >>

Trying Out New Positions 

When it comes to bondage finding the right position often takes some practice, so once you’ve had a bit of experience with basic bondage positions its worth trying more advanced positions. For instance, getting hog tied (lay on your stomach with your hands and ankles tied together behind your back) is extremely kinky and one worth trying for those that love being a sub. The spread-eagle position is another great choice and one that’s no too intense but still sexy as hell.

Simply tie the wrists and ankles to the four posts of a bed, making a note keep the legs well spread for obvious reasons. Both partners get a lot of excitement from this position and it's not too difficult to do. Many kinky acts can be performed with this position, so be sure to try it out. There are many great bondage positions worth trying out, so try do some homework and see what tickles your fancy and then try it out! Bondage sex positions suggested by SeriouslySensual.co.uk >>

Get Rough 

Rough sex during bondage isn’t always the approach to take - many love to use a slow and sensual style, which is a great option for couples that are newer to bondage. That said, when you’re comfortable and ready to go further than before, trying some rough bondage sex is highly recommended. This includes talking dirty, spanking, digging in fingernails, and even a spot of biting. Obviously, don’t go too hard at the risk or injuring each other - just enough roughness is all you need!

We've created a list of other bondage articles that you might also be interested in below:

1. HOW TO MASTER BONDAGE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS

2. TOP 5 BONDAGE & FETISH GEAR

3. BONDAGE TIPS

There is nothing quite like adding bondage play into your sex life.

The sensation of being restrained or retraining someone else is unlike anything you can imagine, and once you dip your toe into the world of bondage its hard to step back out.

The great thing about bondage is that it’s suitable for everyone. Whether you’re a newbie looking to try it out for the first time or an aficionado that regularly enjoys bondage in the bedroom, there really is something for everyone. You can try different positions, add all sorts of toys and gear into the equation, while also having the chance to switch up roles from dominating to submissive. Simply put, bondage is amazing and we highly recommend you try it out!

Here are some handy bondage tips that anyone can enjoy!

Talk About What You’d Like to Try

A big part of bondage is power roles between the dominant and the submissive. This process must always be consensual, which is why you want to talk about you’d like to try and where your boundaries are set. You don’t even try to introduce these roles when playing with bondage, although it’s always going to be there to some extent - the person being bound is typically a sub, although the fact their boundaries must be respected could also see them as a dom too, so it’s all a matter of perspective. In any case, always talk with a partner before trying bondage. Talk about what you want to try, what your kinks are and what you enjoy, as well as the things you aren’t interesting in trying. It could be oral sex, spanking, spitting, dirty talk, or a slow and sensual massage - discuss what you’d like to try most! Learning what turns the other person on and what their boundaries are is one of the best parts of bondage - and it occurs before a single restraint is involved!

Dirty Talk Works Well

As we mentioned, bondage isn’t just about getting tied up, as there are all types of sexual activities that can take place during bondage. One of the best examples of this is to try out some dirty talk as you are being tied or tying someone up. For example, if you like being the submissive partner then you can say as much, calling yourself naughty, bad girl, begging for forgiveness etc. Dirty talk doesn’t need to be BDSM themed during bondage but it's often a fine addition when done in this way. Regardless, dirty talk gives both people the chance to talk about their desires and pleasures during bondage play. You can create hot fantasies you’ve always wanted and really build up the anticipation of bondage without even using a restraint.
 

Blindfolds Work Too

Much like dirty talk blindfolds are a fine addition to some bondage play. By adding sensory deprivation to the play, the person being tied and blindfolded can be teased and stimulated to the point of a sensory overload - its quite the experience and one well worth trying. Bondage and blindfolds don’t even require touching. Simply whispering into the ear of the restrained partner can build a tantalising amount of tension, then upping the ante with some soft kissing and ticking will result in one almighty climax - or possibly several! Take 5 minutes to browse through our collection of blindfolds >>

Massage Candles have a few uses

Massage candles are a great way to create the perfect ambience for some sensual bondage play, but they can also be used for temperature play, although it’s a good idea to get candles suitable for such activities. For instance, you can alternate between hot and cold sensations using candle wax and ice to on the restrained individual, with things feeling even more intense when blindfolded. Drizzling wax onto a partner is incredible arousing for both people, just make sure you don’t use ordinary candle wax as this is usually too warm for most people. Check out some of our own low-temperature burning candles that are perfect for bondage adventures!

Do Some Homework

As restraints are the cornerstone of all bondage activities, it’s a good idea to do some homework to get an idea of the types of knots to tie and what positions you can try out with restraints. Basic knots are fine for most people - there’s no need to go for anything overly fancy. In fact, it could be argued that knowing your knots is more important for understanding how to quickly untie them should someone start to feel sore or uncomfortable. Take a closer look through our completre bondage collection >>

Interesting in trying a bit of bondage play with your better half? We highly recommend bondage for anyone that has never tried it, because it is one of the easiest ways to add some kinkiness into your sex life.

Not only will it make for an unforgettable night with your partner but also be something that brings you closer together - talk about a win-win!.

INSTRUMENTS OF PLEASURE - RED LEVEL

Bondage is all about having fun and playing sexy games with your partner. From roleplaying to dirty talking to sensual massages, there are various ways that bondage can be used in the bedroom, which is why this Instruments of Pleasure Kit is such a great product. It provides a selection of bondage accessories that give you all you need to get started. The kit includes silky soft restraints, which are great for avoiding damage that often occurs with rope, along with a soft blindfold for some sensory deprivation play, a vibrating ring, and some massage oil to add a sensual aspect to your bondage play. It’s everything you could ever need to get started with a bit of bondage and all the products included will certainly have their uses, even for those nights without bondage!

IF YOU LOOKING TO LEARN MORE BONDAGE TIPS AND TRICKS THEN THERE IS THIS GREAT ARTICLE OVER AT MARIE CLAIRE >>

Maze - Tassel Choker Black

A common misconception about bondage is that it is all about getting tied up and nothing more. This isn’t true, as there is a lot different aspects to bondage beyond being restrained, such as roleplaying and dress up. Dressing up for bondage makes the entire experience that bit naughtier, which is why this tassel choker is such a popular seller at SeriouslySensual. The black necklace choker sits comfortably around the neck with long tassels falling from a ring at the centre. This is perfect for some bondage that involves roleplaying, allowing you to take on the role as either a sub or dom. Add in some restraints and dirty talk with this choker and we guarantee an unforgettable night!

Maze - Tassel Flogger Brown

Another important part of bondage is what happens after being restrained. For many, it goes straight to foreplay and then sex, but there are many fun ways to experiment when being tied up in a naught position. Floggers a great example of this, with peopling taking on a top or dominant position using them as a form of impact play. This basically involves stinging the restrained with the flogger person to provoke arousal - it’s well worth a try if you love being spanked! For this, we recommended this flogger. It’s not made from the toughest material - it’s polyeutherne so 100% animal-free - so it shouldn’t be too painful for beginners. That said, a nice strike with this and the sensations will certainly kick the sub into over-dive!

SHHH - BLINDFOLD

Blindfolds and bondage go hand in hand! If you love bondage then you’ve likely tried adding blindfold into proceedings, but those that are new to the fetish will find blindfolding a great way to get started. It’s not too intimidating and the experience of being restrained and blindfolded is something we couldn’t recommend enough. This Shh blindfold is a best seller because it’s perfectly design for sensory deprivation. Made from a double sided ribbon, the material softly covers the eyes, opening up all other senses like nothing before. From there, you can do whatever strikes your fancy, whether its massages, being restrained, impact play, temperature play, or a bit of everything!

Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Metal Handcuffs

For those unsure where to get started with bondage we recommend something simple yet effective - like these metal handcuffs. Handcuffs are a fantastic form of restraining that aren’t too intimidating, making it great choice for those dipping their toe into the world of bondage. They offer a quick and easy way to restrain you or your partner and can be used in a variety of positions, from tying hands to a bedposts to having the hands restrained behind the back. These are very use to use, featuring a simple lock system that will be easy to remove whenever necessary, while they are designed to comfortably restrain without causing any damage to the wrists.

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Serving the military is never easy - it’s only reserved for the bravest people willing to make the biggest sacrifices to protect their country. We understand just how much effort this takes every day, which is why we are proud to offer a special forces discounts for members of the British military. In a partnership with British Forces Discounts, we are happy to offer all serving military personnel with a 10% discount voucher when visiting SeriouslySensual through britishforcesdiscounts.co.uk - it’s our way of thanking everyone serving for all that they do.

Everything you need to register for this deal is found on the British Forces Discounts website. So if you are serving member of the military and want to take advance of this special discount - which is available on all our products - be sure to head over to the website.

Just head over to the site and use the link provided to visit our online store and spend your voucher. There is no catch or hidden details - we just want to offer our thanks to the brave men and women serving the military Discreet Shipping and Billing on all Orders We understand that our products may raise a few eyebrows - especially if being delivered to a barracks! Sometimes people want their purchased items to be low-profile to avoid drawing unwanted attention, which is why we offer discreet shipping and billing. This is also very useful if you want to treat your partner to a nice surprise! Speaking of surprises, all items are sent in beautiful tissue wrapping paper with heart confetti sprinkled on top, so all our products are perfect for a surprise gift for that special someone. We also offer free shipping on all orders over £40 and accept all major debit and credit cards, as well PayPal.

Treat That Special Someone with Your Military Discount Voucher

Whether you want to treat your spouse to a naughty negligee during their next leave or send a kinky care package to let them know you can’t wait to see them again, we’ve got a range of sexy lingerie, outfits, and sex toys for military couples out there. Remember, this is a 10% off voucher so it goes towards your entire order - why not treat each other to a few sexy gifts? Here are some of our top picks for kinky items that our guys and gals in the military will appreciate!

NAUGHTY ARMY COSTUMES

Are you a military wife wanting to treat their husband during your next big reunion? Maybe you are currently on duty and want to treat your husband on your big return? Then be sure to out one of our sexy army girl costumes that will drive him wild!

We have a few to choose from, including the alluring Yesx YX124 Army Girl Costume. This two-piece outfit features a mesh and spandex top with a front tie, leaving your assets on full display for your favourite military man. Paired with cheeky camo spandex panties, we are certain this will be the best camouflage he’s ever seen - it’s the one time where camouflage is always meant to be seen! We also have the very naughty Yesx YX136 GI Jane Costume. This three-piece army girl costume features a stretchy spandex top with a front zipper closure and a fake belt, a matching set of black panties with garters, fishnet stockings to attach to the garters, and a military hat. Both outfits offer an alluring army girl look that he won’t be forgetting anytime soon - mission accomplished solider!

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ROZA NATALI PINK SET

Anyone with a military partner or spouse knows how important it is to make the most of your time together. There are fewer things more important for these relationships than getting intimate, so why not prepare for an incredible night together in the bedroom with some sexy lingerie? Sexy lingerie will drive him wild and make you feel seductive and empowered, which is why we recommend that everyone gets themselves some naught lingerie sets. One of our newest additions is this gorgeous Roza Natali Pink lingerie set. This cute bra and pantie set features a beautiful floral embroidery design, with a lush lace up front at the bust that is sure to draw his attention. It’s done in a gorgeous pink colour that contrasts nicely with the black and white floral detailing - it’s such as beautiful look that we guarantee it becomes one of your favourite garments in your lingerie collection You can choose between a matching thong or briefs, while a matching suspender belt is also available to complete a stunning look that is a welcome home treat for any military spouse or partner.

Take a closer look at the Roza Natali Set in Pink here >>

MOJO PRO ORIGINAL DESIRE PHEROMONE SOY MASSAGE CANDLE

What better way to treat that special military personnel in your life to a sensual massage? For this, we recommend this soy massage candle to provide the perfect relaxing ambience for a deep massage. After all, military service is far from easy work, so we are confident in saying they really do deserve a massage from the person they love most. This soy candle features a range of special ingredients that give off the same powerful aromas as human pheromones. Simply put, a few minutes smelling this candle with drive you both wild with anticipation. Of course, a massage isn’t all we had in mind when recommending this gift. The wax is a special mixture that melts just about body temperature into a sensual massage oil that you can pour over your partner. Made from coconut oil and shea butter, the oil is even good for the skin! The combination of pheromones and sensual oil means that the massage is only going to lead to one thing - which is precisely why we suggest buying it!

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GLORIA CAMI SET VANILLA PINK

Now, when one half of a couple is in the military, you need to make every second together count, and while we always want couples to enjoy some sexy time together, sometimes chilling in bed is just as good. With that in mind, we think this gorgeous pink pyjama set is the perfect outfit for those lazy days together. Of course, being us, we feel jammies can always be a little sexier - just like this cute three bra, robe, and thong set. Simple but sext, the soft pink hues give it flirty style that will certainly get pulses racing during those lazy lie-ins, but it’s also a very soft and comfortable PJ set. The bra has triangle cups and is completely adjustable for added comfort while a matching pair of flared shorts offer the sexiness of a mini-skirt but the comfort of loose bottoms. You also get a ‘robe’ with the pyjamas, although this is more like a cropped cardigan than anything else, tying at the front should you want more coverage. Cute but sexy, these pyjamas make a great gift for any special ladies serving in the military or those waiting for their partner to come home that cannot wait to chill out together.

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FIFTY SHADES FREED PLEASURE OVERLOAD 10 DAYS OF PLEASURE

They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder and anyone that has a partner in the military knows this all too well. So, we think it’s important to make the absolute most of your time together - how about ten days of naughty fun in the bedroom? That’s exactly what this Fifty Shades Freed giftset encourages, providing a range of kinky accessories to show just how fond you are of each other. Whether you’re new to bondage and sexy games in the bedroom or a kinky military couple to begin with, these toys and accessories are a perfect way to make the most of your time together. It will add some serious spice to your sex life, which is important for any couple, letting you explore all kinds of fun and exciting things in the bedroom. For instance, there are vibrators for him and her, including a vibrating cock ring that gives simultaneous pleasure. For those that want to try a spot of sensation play, the soft blindfold, restraints, tickler, and flogger give everything you need to take turns exploring each other’s senses. This Fifty Shades Freed gift set is the perfect way to celebrate your time together!

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Struggling for Christmas gift ideas? You wouldn’t be the first person, as getting the right gift is often a challenge, especially if you haven’t been given suggestions beforehand!.

To make life that bit easier we’ve created a list of Xmas toys to buy your partner this Christmas. However, these aren’t your ordinary Xmas toys, instead we’re talking about sex toys! After all, giving the same boring gifts every Xmas gets old very quickly, so why not treat that special someone in your life to a brand-new sex toy? It’s a gift that both of you can enjoy, while there are plenty of options to suit all preferences and experience levels.

Xmas Sex Toys for this Christmas from SeriouslySensual.co.uk

So, with that in mind, check out our top 5 Xmas sex toys for this Christmas!

Jessica Rabbit Ultimate Xxtra Vibrator

If you want to buy the special lady in your life the perfect Xmas sexy toy, look no further than the Jessica Rabbit Ultimate Plus Vibrator. It’s the complete vibrator for women, offering simultaneous stimulation that is like anything else they have experienced. Although it may help to have use some sort of sexy toy before, diving straight into the deep end with the Jessica Rabbit Ultimate Plus Vibrator is certainly an option, with this powerful toy featuring three tows of simulation beads and a rotating shaft that leads to all kinds of amazing pleasure. Both the ears and shaft have various speed options to get the perfect setting, and it’s even waterproof so can be enjoyed in the shower or tub!

Rocks Off Bamboo 10 Function Vibrator - Rose Gold

If you’re looking for a Christmas sex toy but want to start somewhere easy then we recommend this Rocks Off Bamboo vibrator. It’s a discreet little vibrator with a sensual contoured surface that produces wonderful waves of vibrations. You can use it in various spots, although it certainly works best when applied to the clitoris, where wave after wave of power vibration will give her a feeling of pure ecstasy. Better still, you can enjoy this toy together or solo, making it a great Xmas sex toy for couples. It’s not too big or intense, making it great choice for anyone trying vibrators for the first time.

Svakom Amy G-Spot Vibrator

This G-Spot vibrator from Svakom is one of the more powerful and intense options available, so you may want to have some experience using toys, although it’s certainly not necessary. As a G-spot vibrator it’s designed to reach the elusive sweet spot that many struggle to find, offering a completely different orgasm that will blow her away. That said, the shape of vibrator is designed to be pleasurable rather than painful, so it's not too thick or large to cause discomfort. The curve reaches into the G-spot and massages it with vibrations that can be set to different intensities, so it shouldn’t feel too overwhelming. Six pulse modes are available at the touch of a button, letting her find the perfect settings, and it makes for a great toy to use together should you want to enjoy some serious foreplay.

FIFTY SHADES FREED PLEASURE OVERLOAD 10 DAYS OF PLEASURE

If you both have some time off work for Christmas then be sure to lock yourselves away with this awesome sex toy set inspired by Fifty Shades Freed. It has everything you could need for a naughty weekend in the bedroom, with ten different toys to set you on your way. You can try a spot of light bondage with the eye mask and restraints, while the flogger and tickler are great for sensory that overloads the body with unimaginable pleasures. For stepping things up a level, you can try out the nipple clamps (which can go on him or her), while a selection of vibrators should give you everything you both need to reach climax after climax. There’s a bullet vibrator for her clit, egg vibrators for inside, an anal vibrator for anyone brave enough, and a cock ring for passionate sex.

SILICONE USB RECHARGEABLE REMOTE CONTROL PLEASURIZER COUPLES COCK RING

Anyone couples looking to dabble with sex toys for the first time this Christmas can’t go wrong with this rechargeable couples’ cock ring. Designed to offer simultaneous pleasure during sex, the stretchy design means it fits cocks of all sizes, offering wonderful vibrations to both him and her. For some fun role play one person can take control of the vibrations using the remote control, letting the intense pleasures build up into an incredible crescendo. Plus, the memory chip remembers your settings a picks up exactly where you left off!