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So, if you've never enjoyed the feeling of a butt plug then let us explain why they're such a hit.

They offer pleasure to both men and women, so whatever your gender or orientation your guaranteed an explosive experience.

The anus in both sexes is full of thousands of little nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated.

Butt plugs are amazing little toys that allow you to explore new erogenous zones. If anal sex is a new thing for you then these will ease you in perfectly. They loosen you up for new things, so take it slow and steady, you have to walk before you can run.

So what are butt plugs all about?

Well they are exactly what it says on the tin. They plug up your butt. ;-) It's sole purpose is to make you feel good as inside your butt holds an amazing array of pleasure.

The key to anal play is relaxation.

Before i buy a butt plug, what do i need to know?

Just ensure that the particular butt plug is made out of a body safe material. there are some novelty items out there on the market that are really not suitable. Some of these cheaper sex toys are made of materials that will leave unwanted chemicals with your body. Just check this before getting too excited!

Below we have chosen one of our best selling anal sex toys so you can rest assured it has been tried and tested.

PRECIOUS METALS
SMOOTH SILVER
BUTT PLUG-LARGE

So here's the first of our Anal sex toys, and there's a good reason for it being top of our list!

The little puppy offer a luxurious feel to your anal play. The Precious Metals Smooth Silver Anal Plug will glisten into your partners eyes whenever you turn your back on them. The diamond detail will definitely catch their eye even if your bare skin doesn't!

It comes in three sizes we've chosen the largest to review, we like to push you to your limits. Beginners might want to ease in with the small size 13cms x 4.6cms.
This anal butt plug is so elegant, well designed and truly the anal plug of all anal plugs.

Its curved top will allow it to be easily inserted and the larger bulb shape will enjoy its pleasure every step of the way.

The plug can be enjoyed both in solo sessions and also when playing with your partner at the helm. The weight oozes quality and luxury and is guaranteed to add thrills and pleasure.

It comes with it's own bag for storage and you're safe to use any lube with it.

Here are the main features:

• It has a pointy tip for ease of insertion with a wider base for your safety
• It is decorated with a beautiful Jewelled base
• the shape makes it easy to clean because of it's smooth surface
• It can be used for temperature play, just check the temperature beforehand
• Perfect for both beginners and also the more advanced of you 
• Your safe to use it with  water-based, silicone-based or oil-based lubes
• It is supplied with a drawstring bag for travel privacy

Buy the PRECIOUS METALS SMOOTH SILVER BUTT PLUG-LARGE

SVAKOM VICK NEO INTERACTIVE APP CONTROLLED PROSTATE MASSAGER

The second of our best selling anal sex toys is the Svakom Vick with neo interactive app.

The main reason for this being high on our list is that fact that this stunning prostate massager can be app controlled which means your hands free and in the hands of your lover. The Feelconnect3.0 app is easy to install and even easier to use.

It's gets even better though, for solo play it even connects to 2D videos for added excitement.

If your looking for the next best business opportunity then this also ticks the box. Reason being it's interactive with your webcam and can be controlled by your fans! As you get more excited you'll get even more excited by the money rolling in!

There are 7 different vibration settings and 5 levels of intensity powered by two small but powerful motors.

Here are the top features you're going to love:

• It can be controlled from long distance.
• It can be connected to 2d videos
• It's webcam interactive
• It's waterproof for showers and bathing
• It has 7 vibration modes
• It has 5 levels of intensity
• It's rechargeable via usb for ease
• It arrives complete with it's own carry bag

If you are using iPhone, please search"FeelConnect 3" on Apple Store

If you are using android system, please click this link to Download PHOENIX NEO APP(android)

BUY THE SVAKOM VICK NEO INTERACTIVE APP CONTROLLED PROSTATE MASSAGER

SPECTRUM RIBBED
G-SPOT GLASS DILDO

Number three is the Spectrum ribbed g-spot glass wand. The Spectrum is the range of dildos by Loving Joy that are made out of glass. They glass is non-pourous and each are created a piece of art.

The shaft of this dildo is ribbed offering new sensations for exploiting. Both ends are suitable for insertion, so you'll need to pay and see which you prefer. At one of the ends you have a single bulb tip that is curved perfectly to tocuh your g-spot in just the way it likes. The other offers a double bulb that will add an extra amount of pleasure as it slides in and out.

Being glass, it can be warmed or cooled for an added element of temperature play.

To finish off you can use it for vaginal play or anal play, or even both!

Feel safe in the knowledge that it is Hypoallergenic. The material and shape make it hygenic and easy to clean.

BUY THE SPECTRUM RIBBED G-SPOT GLASS DILDO

LOVING JOY TRIPLE
RIPPLE ANAL BEADS - PINK

Triple trouble with this little gem. It's beautifully designed and crafted out of silicone that is hypoallergenic. This material offers a smooth and velvety experience and the three beads that increase in their size allow an increased pleasure the further they are inserted. The silicone allows you to heat them up or cool them down in water depending on the sensation you're looking for. We recommend you try both!

The end has a ring so that you can control the insertion and the extraction. This make sit very easy to control so again start slowly and experiment with the speed and different sensations it offers.

Here are the key features:

• The anal beads have three bulbs for extreme pleasure
• The silicone is super soft and flexible
• The size of the bulbs range from 2.5 to 3.5 inches
• The finger loop has been designed as part of the plug for ease of extraction

Buy the LOVING JOY TRIPLE RIPPLE ANAL BEADS - PINK here

LOVING JOY ANAL
LUBRICANT 250ML

Every sex toy benefits from so lube which i why this just had to be in our top 10 anal products.

This is anal lube designed by Loving Joy, specifically designed for anal play. The lubricant is made from a Thick Water-based formula.

It doesn't stain and is paraben free.

You can relax in the knowledge that it is vegan friendly and Hypoallergenic.

Unlike other silicone lubricants it's safe to use with your sex toys and condoms.

Whatever anal sex toy you end up going for, this really is a must have for increasing the pleasure you'll be having.

BUY THE LOVING JOY ANAL LUBRICANT 250ML

LOVING JOY
ANAL DOUCHE 225ML

Before you start exploring anal play you'll want to be clean and feel fresh full of confidence. An anal douche is the way you'll do this.

Once you've used this you'll only have one thing on your mind... the orgasmic sensations a butt plug will be providing you. It's not a big issue, pop off to the toilet and fill with water. simply insert it and squeeze. Voila nice and clean and rearing to go!

With the 225 ml Loving Joy Anal Douche, becoming clean is easy peasy!

The following feature will make it a must have:

• The douche hold 225 ml of water.
• It comes with it's own removable tip
• The tip made out of ABS
• The Bulb is manufactured out of high quality PVC
• The insertable length of the douche is: 6 cm

BUY THE LOVING JOY ANAL DOUCHE 225ML

FURRY FANTASY
RAINBOW TAIL BUTT PLUG

Introducing the The Furry Fantasy Rainbow Tail Butt Plug.

It's one of the most fun butt plugs we have at SeriouslySensual. It's tear drop shape allows for ease of insertion. Pure quality.

It's made of aluminium alloy and therefore can be used with all types of lube. Water-based, Oil-based and silicone.

The material and shape make it easy to keep clean and you can heat it up or cool it down in water for temperature play.

the most unique part is the rainbow tail that is made from Faux fur and has a length of around 36 cms. When it's inserted you can tease your lover with a little wiggle from side to side! It never fails!

Once you're done with the fun, clean it and put it away in its own storage bag for next time. Oh, and there will definitely be a next time.

BUY THE FURRY FANTASY RAINBOW TAIL BUTT PLUG

FIFTY SHADES FREED DEEP INSIDE RECHARGEABLE CLASSIC WAVE VIBRATOR

Now for somethign a little more direct! Introducing the Fifty Shades Freed waterproof classic wave vibrator.

This compact little vibrator looks like a classic but is by far predictable.

It's armed with seven 7 different vibration modes and 3 speeds that provide stimulation like you've never experienced.

The girth and the length of it have been carefully designed to provide you with hours of pleasure.

It has it's own travel lock so you're safe when you turn up at AirPort security.

Plus this little vibrator has a ribbed outer sheath for hours of extra pleasure. We we say hours we mean hours due to it's ability to be recharged by usb. It doesn't get easier than that now does it! You'll have around 150 minutes for every 180 minute charge.

BUY THE FIFTY SHADES FREED DEEP INSIDE RECHARGEABLE CLASSIC WAVE VIBRATOR

ANEROS EUPHO SYN
TRIDENT PROSTATE MASSAGER

Now for the very unusual looking Aneros Eupho Syn Trident Prostate Massager.

It's been designed for targeted massage of the prostate. But don't let the little tip put you off, it's all you will need. The aneros is made out of thick silicone that offers a rigid but smooth experience when inserting.

For those of you out there that have stronger sphincter muscles this will be for you. You can contract whilst it's inserted for additional pleasure. Even experience anal play goers will discover new heights of orgasm.

When you squeeze you muscles in makes the Aneros pivot and therefore tease and tantalise your P-Spot. When relaxing the Aneros will pivot back. Repeat over and over until you explode.

The added benefit of the Aneros Prostate Massager is that by stimulating the prostate in this way you will ejaculate more meaning a much stronger orgasm.

BUY ANEROS EUPHO SYN TRIDENT PROSTATE MASSAGER

ANAL ADVENTURES
BASIC PLUG KIT BLACK

INTRODUCING THE ANAL ADVENTURES BASIC PLUG KIT BLACK:

This is the perfect set for beginners who's main goal is to become a real pro at anal play.

The set includes three different sized butt plugs in black so that you can work your way up through the sizes until you get to the big boy at a whopping 6.5inches tall by 4.4 inches wide.

They are all tapered to allow easy insertion and extraction.

BUY THE ANAL ADVENTURES BASIC PLUG KIT BLACK

There's absolutely no way you'll be going to bed alone tonight! So which of these fantastic anal sex toys will you be taking with you?

If you're looking for your erotic lingerie, it's in your bottom drawer.

You might have been given it on a hen do. Your ex might have bought it for you. Or, you might have treated yourself in the thinking it would make you feel super sexy on the next horny escapade. To be honest, it doesn't matter where or how you got it, this is the time it needs to come out and put on!

Every women deserves the occasional thrill of showing off her body adorned with sexy erotic lingerie in front of her loved one. Jut watch the expression on their face when you do the 'big reveal'!

Trashy Lingerie: Erotic Underwear at its Best

Initially there is the simple sleazy underwear. This includes anything from a red cup-less body to the nasty set of crotchless panties. These tend to be women's favourite kinky lingerie that's stuffed down the back of their wardrobe. 

Well let us say for the record that ladies, there is absolutely nothing bad about showing off your bod in these skimpy little sets that reveal all of your curves and more. To be honest they are the best lingerie styles for boosting your confidence and therefore your intimate time.

Dare to wear women's erotic underwear on every occasion!

If you're wanting to set your sheets on fire then there are lingerie sets that will certainly do that. You could try building a whole set, starting with a cupless teddy, some sexy stockings and a paid of nipple pasties to finish off the look. 

We're talking about lingerie that you'll need to send the kids off to your in-laws. there's no way you can fully enjoy it with any prying eyes around the house.

Now after saying all of this, there is one negative we may not have mentioned. Once you've enjoyed it once you'll definitely want more and this is where the problem come in to play. You don't have enough erotic lingerie to outlast your stamina.

But don't worry this is where we come in to help. Below are 5 of our best selling cup-less and crotchless underwear. We're pretty confident you're going to like at least one of them.

GINETTE BLACK CHEMISE

Ok, so for starters here's the incredibly alluring GINETTE BLACK CHEMISE. We've started with this sexy little number because we feel it's the perfect compromise between strappy revealing lingerie and a full covered babydoll. 

The Ginette features a cupless top design with straps that create an intricate design whilst serving the main purpose of support. This design acts as the main foundation for overall look. There is a sliding fastener at the back neckline that allows you to adjust to give you just the right amount of support without being restricted.

On the lower half there is a flowing tulle that is risqué, draping across your body. The see through material provides a sexy shadow of your curvesmakign this a very erotic lingerie piece.

It doesn't stop there, the back has an open cheeky open area that shows off the matching thong and / or bum cheeks.

It's worth mentioning that the nipple pasties are not included with the set but don't worry we have you covered! See our nipple pastie collection here>>

You will be glad to hear that the Ginette Chemise is also available in red and white. 

Buy the GINETTE BLACK CHEMISE here

GINETTE-RED-BODY

Now for the second of our best selling lingerie. The Ginette is a sexy teddy that's a seriously sumptuous. It has a strappy design on top thats made out of elasticated material for comfort. The complex pattern is a main design element to this gorgeous piece. The elasticated straps adorn the curves of your breasts revealing your breasts in the best way possible.

There is an adjustable fastener at the top neck line at the back which ensure a perfect fit. The straps are connected to a transparent tullle that covered the rest of your body. All your curves are exaggerated beautifully by this sheer material and will tease your partner into a frenzy.

The back is just as beautiful with it's open back and the lower area has the matching sheer tulle, making this piece very cheeky. This is why we've included this in this top 5 erotic lingerie list.

Unfortunately the nipple pasties are not included but don't worry you can buy the NC019 Red nipple covers here.

If red isn't your colour the Ginette Teddy is also available in Black and white.

Buy the GINETTE RED BODY here

IRALL-EROTIC-SKYE-CORSET

Now for the exciting Erotic Skye corset. Although this is an oldie, it's also a goodie! This bright little number is one of our best sellers and we can see why.

The Skye corset has an open cup design with delicate lace straps that wrap around your breasts. The matching lace is continued around the edging of the main body area, decorated with little black bows.

The straps at the back are adjustable to ensure the perfect fit. Making this very comfortable and sexy lingerie.

The main body has suspender straps built in so all you need to finish off the look are a nice set of stockings.

The skye corset is completed with it's very sexy little (very little) matching blue and black lace thong. Absolutely stunning!

Buy the IRALL EROTIC SKYE CORSET here

ME-SEDUCE-LORETTA-SET-BLACK

Next is the Loretta Set in black. The Loretta is a very tempting three piece set from the ME Seduce Gold & I collection.

The design of the Loretta is strappy. There's not much to it! The straps are positioned carefully to enhance your curves and exaggerate all of your best bits.

The top half is cupless with only a few straps that curve around your breasts. Then there is a look alike suspender that sits around your waistline decorated with little clasps in gold.

Finally there's the matching thong that has straps that sit on your hips. The straps are elasticated and easy to move up and down to sit comfortably on your curves.

Please note that the nipple covers are not included and are for photographic effect. We do however sell the Me Seduce NC017 black nipple covers here.

Lastly, if black just isn't your colour the Loretta also comes in Red and white.

Buy the ME SEDUCE LORETTA SET BLACK here

SASHA-BODY-BLACK-RED

Last but not least we would like to introduce the Sasha Teddy. It's a very hot piece of lingerie that will bring out the animal in you.

The cups are decorated with a red and black tiger print design thats semi opaque allowing your nipples to tease and tantalise.

The body is manufactured using elasticated wet-look material meaning it clings to all your beautiful curves. At the bottom edge of the body there is matching red and black tiger print tulle to complete the design.

Along the edges of the cups and body is delicate scalloped edging that brings a quality feel to this Sexy teddy.

At the back you'll find a binding Rouleau loop tie feature to ensure the best fit and there are also thin criss cross style straps for an extra level of adjustment.

The best part about the Sasha Body is the fact that it's been designed as crotchless making it incredibly erotic. The back doesn't let the side down either. It has been left open so your bottom is on view to all with a thong style back design to it. We love this and apparently you guys do to!

Buy the SASHA BODY BLACK RED here

If you're teased but not completely decided why not take a look at our full erotic lingerie collection and browse a little more.

Crotchless Lingerie: What's it all about?

Well it may be a shock but men love their lingerie with as little fabric as possible. In a survey 54% of men said they preferred a bra that revealed more skin. on the other hand 34% said they would purchase smaller thongs. 

Sadly, these men will get a big disappointment, as 62% of the ladies surveyed said they preferred more material over their private parts and breasts.

To make matters worse, 64% of the ladies returned a verdict stating comfort was at the top of their list when they bought lingerie. Men have a big problem getting their heads around these stats but unfortunately the statistics don't lie.

It's not all bad news though.... Men do however have a preference of bright coloured seductive lingerie compared to women who would rather play safer with black and white classy lingerie.

Out of all the men surveyed, 74% liked their women to wear brighter colours, red being top of the list.

It's not all bad news though.. it seems women have special erotic lingerie that's specially worn on nights of seduction. 89% conveyed they felt much more sexy and confident when they wear this special erotic lingerie.

It's a mutual agreement though that both men and women prefer the sets to be matching and co-ordinated, materials, colours and styles.

so, the big take away form this survey is that men love their lingerie to reveal more skin that tease and tantalise. The fabrics preferred are lace, see through, straps and bows that can be undone at the right moment. 

Either way erotic lingerie installs confidence and therefore improves the sexual experience. Women have also said that they sometimes wear sexy lingerie for work sometimes, even when partying with their friends. So, basically it can be worn whenever it suits! 

Crotchless Lingerie shocks the most

When you're wanting to make a lasting impression, crotchless lingerie never fails. Crotchless lingerie also known as open-front lingerie has an opening around the women's vagina, for easy access. Depending on her position this opening is as revealing or as teasing as she wants, leaving her in complete control. Luring in here lover as and when she wants.

Although crotchless underwear isn't for everyone, no one can deny that the women figure and beauty is at its best when on show.

There are many different styles to consider when buying crotchless lingerie so we've collected a few of our best sellers to give you a taste of whats on offer here at SeriouslySensual.

Our top 5 best selling crotchless lingerie pieces:

IRALL BRISTOL SET BLACK

The first on our list is the predatory Bristol set that's made for feisty women! Pure comfort is made possible due to the soft elasticated material with a delicate elastic mesh adoring a leopard print pattern. The Bristol has a cupless bra and has the matching leopard print pattern sat next to stunning black lace. the bra is fastened by three hooks and eye adjusters. The panties are matching but with the an element of surprise in the crotchless gusset. We're not certain but we're guessing this is why the Bristol set is one of our best sellers. Well, at least the men will think so!

Buy the Irall Bristol set in black here 

SEXY STRAPPY LACE GARTERED TEDDY BLACK

Introducing number two on our list of crotchless lingerie. It's the Strappy stretch lace gartered teddy. This stunning teddy is a little unconventional for a teddy. It's more of a cross between a bra and panty set and a teddy/body. It's delicate lace material covers the breast leaving small openings for the nipples to be revealed.

The bottom half although attached has a matching lace look alike suspenders that are connected to the panties. To complete the look the Strappy stretch lace gartered teddy comes with a pair of stockings. What else do you need for your erotic night of teasing and tantalising. 

Buy the SEXY STRAPPY LACE GARTERED TEDDY BLACK here 

SHIRLEY OF HOLLYWOOD 90443 BLACK

Third but not least is the 90443 by Shirley of Hollywood. Although the name isn't that sexy it's hard to deny that this sexy teddy with crotchless front leave's little to the imagination.

It's made out of stretchy lace so enhance all your curves in all the right places.

It comes in the classic black colour and has a revealing criss cross design down the front leading to an opening for all to see. The back certainly doesn't let the side down either with its thong style back. This sexy little number definitely will shock and dazzle the onlooker.

Buy the SHIRLEY OF HOLLYWOOD 90443 BLACK here 

PR7036 INSTANTS LOVERS OPEN THONG

Although it's low on the list it's not to be underestimated! May we introduce you to the Provocative Sexy Red Crotchless thong. It pretty much says it all in the name. This incredibly sexy thong is constructed our of stretchy lace and elasticated straps that act as detail on the front but turn into something a little more erotic on the back. If your lover finds the time they will notice this thong has beautiful details, the bow being one of the most obvious.

This sexy crotchless thong is definitely not for the faint hearted, but once their on you'll feel a whole new side of sexiness come over you. Sadly the nipple covers aren't included but here's the link to a set of red nipple pasties that will surely be appreciated.

Buy the PR7036 INSTANTS LOVERS OPEN THONG here 

PROVOCATIVE L'ETERNELLE BODY WHITE

Last but not least is one or our personal favourites. The Provocative L'Eternelle Body in white. It's ornate body that's rich in style and made out of exquisite lace. It's been carefully designed to exaggerate your curves bu clinching in at your waistline.

The material is sensual to the touch made out of very delicate lace, with a floral pattern and fully adjustable. At the back you have hook san eyes so that you can adjust for complete comfort.

It's design has sexy cut outs down the side over your hips, these too are fully adjustable. Now for the best bit, It has a crotchless front and bum design that's extremely naughty. Although it's white it makes up for it in design. The teddy is completed by delicate small bows on the shoulder straps and just above the bum.

Buy the PROVOCATIVE L'ETERNELLE BODY WHITE here 

Don't worry if none of these crotchless sets are right for you, we have many other styles and we're pretty confident that one of them will be just what you're looking for.

Why not browse the whole crotchless lingerie collection here

If you've attempted to do a little light bondage before then maybe this article will be right up your street and help you decide if you want to get a little darker!

It's well known that couples who have experienced with a little light bondage being tied up and treated a sex object, touched and played with, pleasured and satisfied without putting in much effort at all. Initially, it can be great fun but a lot of couple discover that this tends to be one sided.

You'll require initiative and imagination. If you have these two skills then there are plenty of bondage toys out there to aid your sexy restraining sessions on your journey.

If you can set a theme to begin with, you'll find your bondage play easier to maintain and keep fresh, time after time.

Here are some initial ideas to help you on your way!

1. A taste of bondage & discipline.

The term bondage often gets misconstrued. It's not just being tied down and beaten, on the contrary it's more about a lover being constrained, being a willing pupil, keeping their hands to themselves whilst you take the dom (dominant) role to teach them new experiences whilst they can't do any touching themselves.

Whilst they are tied up, show them how to excite you using your hands or sex toys.

Put on a show! If you like to use bondage toys here and there then feel free to use them as part of your show. Tease your partner by telling them what you're doing to yourself, how you like to be touched and where exactly. The more detailed and descriptive you can be the better and more tantalising it will be fore your partner.

Don't give in to your partner when they start squiggling and fighting the restraints. This display is better know as 'tease and denial'. It's where you know that they want to touch you but you won't let them. Well lot until they learn how to properly!

Explain to your lover what positions you like and exactly what you love about that position. Make sure they know how to do it exactly as you like it to be done.

Bondage does allow a little movement. For example you could use leg spreaders and wrist cuffs for their hands. These can be great toys for your bondage gear box of goodies.

The leg spreaders provide easy access to all your private parts between your legs and you can hold onto the convenient bar for the more awkward positions.

If you tie your lover up using their hands/wrists above their head you will have access to their torso, their legs and their crotch. You'll be able to move them into different positions and show them what really does it for you. The fact they are tied up means there is no danger of them moving out of position before you climax.

If you allow them to have some movement they will be able to participate in penetration whilst keeping a good balance. This would be an ideal time to teach them how to perform oral sex just the way you like it.

Bondage and oral sex make a great team. If your lover is tied up on their knees they can still perform oral sex. You'll have complete control over how they move and then you can tell them how orgasmic it feels when they do it correctly. This is one lesson the definitely won't being forgetting too soon.

2. Sensory play is part of bondage

When all of your senses are restricted (sight, sound, touch and taste), this is known as sensory play. It's where foreplay is a slow build up. It's all about the psychology and physicality stimulating your mind and body. It's up to you to try different styles of sensory play to discover how your lover's body reacts, likes and doesn't like.

If you're a fan of foreplay, sensory play is a great tool in your armoury. It compliments bondage by adding an element of anticipation into the mix and it stops your partner from going to fast and the experience finishing too soon.

It's not a must to be tied up but you'll discover that a blindfold will seriously enhance the session. Ear buds will also aid in blocking out all the sounds, such as vibrations. This bondage kit has all you'll need.

Different temperatures.

Whilst your lover is tied up and blindfolded introduce different temperatures. These will wake up all your lovers nerve endings. Ice is the obvious one but you could also consider glass dildos that can be both heated up or cooled down in water. Obviously make sure you don't make the temperatures too hot or cold and consider which parts of their body you teasing. They will react and let you know!

Watch them wriggle when the cold tingling ice runs down their body. They will pivot in all kinds of provocative motions.

A little pleasure and pain can work

This is all about balance and timing. Begin with several different pleasurable sensations and after a while throw in the occasional moment of pain then followed by another set of pleasurable sensations. During these short moments of pain it releases both adrenaline and dopamine into the blood stream and this creates a short period of natural high. At the same time all of your lovers nerve endings will be raised to the surface so the next time they will be even more sensitive.

There are some toys that can aid in this adventure, such as paddles, whips and feather ticklers. They can be used throughout the whole experience whether it be massage and foreplay or full penetration.

If you're seeing signs of enjoyment with this type of play then don't hesitate in using these bondage toys to exaggerate the intensity.

A spanking paddle is basically acts as your hand but is much better due to its larger surface and harder material. The flogger has long tails and is usually made from leather. You can caress the body with the tails whilst occasionally whipping the body for a little pain. Start slowly and work your way up the pain thresholds to discover where your lover's limit might be.

Here's an example of how you could do it. Whilst massaging your lover, try a quick spank to the buttocks or back of thighs. This will soon wake them up if they're getting too relaxed. We don't want them falling asleep now do we!

3. Tease, tie up and tantalise

Finally we have a more progressive style of bondage play. This is where you restrain your lover right up to the point of them climaxing and then suddenly reducing the stimulation so that the arousal dissipates. This can be a mutual experience so that both of you are synchronised with each others levels of stimulation. 

Although you can do this without bondage being involved it's not as powerful as without being restrained your partner can end up stimulating themselves to orgasm.

This method is not to be confused with the BDSM act of denial or ruined orgasm, the main goal is to tease and increase the intensity of frustration to exaggerate the final orgasm. Use good communication skills to ensure orgasm isn't reach at least 3 or 4 times before you allow them the full glorious climax. This will take time but once mastered you'll both be having a mind-blowing sexual experience.

If you want to learn how the bondage professionals do it have a read of our bondage for professionals blog article.

Rabbit Vibrators are a must for around 80% of women who cannot climax with just penetration, this why the well now Rabbit vibe are so loved by all. It hit the stage with its appearance in sex and the city.

The unique element of a rabbit vibrator is that not only does it stimulate the g-spot but at the same time it also teases the clitoris.

They'll typically have a raised tip which has been carefully designed to replicate the feeling of the penis head hitting the G-spot with every move. They tend to have two motors, one for the clit and one for the g-spot giving you more personalised control over your orgasm.

If you one of the unlucky ones who haven't experienced experienced the power of this vibe then you've been missing out.

They offer what we call a blended orgasm. This happens when both of your erogenous zones are stimulated at the same time.

They are women's most popular sex toys. Below are ten of our best selling vibrators for every budget.

HAPPY RABBIT RECHARGEABLE
WAND VIBRATOR BLACK

This well designed rechargeable rabbit vibrator is the ultimate combination of a wand vibrator but with little ears. This powerful bunny has ten vibrations and three power setting that together are guaranteed to bring you to orgasm.

This magnificent vibe is not named the Happy Rabbit for nothing. It's power comes in two forms, from the ears and from the shaft.

It's been carefully designed with the user in mind. The shaft has been designed with grip in mind and the handle will allow you to point the power in all the right places throughout the most magnificent orgasm.

The ears are beneficial to both yourself but also to your partner. You can tickle both of your erogenous zones at the same time! double the trouble!

The fact is rechargeable means you can take it everywhere you go. This rabbit vibe loves water so take it into the shower or relax in a bath with your new found friend.

It won't even embarrass you when going on holiday. It comes with a travel lock meaning you won't be embarrassed at airport security.

It loves a little lube but just remember only use water based lubricants r your little friend will start to melt. You're the one that's meant to do the melting!

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HAPPY RABBIT MINI EARS
RECHARGEABLE RABBIT FINGER
VIBRATOR PURPLE

Introducing the Happy Rabbit Mini Ears Rechargeable Rabbit finger Vibrator is a Luxurious rechargeable (via USB) clitoral vibrator. It has three powerful speeds and 9 different vibration patters for a truly customisable orgasm.

It's flexible and thick ears surround the clit for an amazing stimulation session.

The body has been designed to allow you to aim all the power to the right place providing hours of pleasure.

Where ever you are int he world, you can take your new little friend with you
with its USB charger and travel lock.

Again, it's been designed to be taken into the shower and bath time due to it being totally waterproof.

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SVAKOM ANGEL WARMING
RABBIT VIBRATOR PINK

The Svakom Angel Warming Rabbit Vibrator is armed with two powerful motors for double pleasure. This little beauty offers both Clitoral stimulation via the small arm and G-spot stimulation via the bigger thicker shaft. The power is out of this world.

Just as you thought it couldn't get any better it has a heating function that provides a more realistic sensation especially when your on your own on those cold nights.

It's been manufactured our of silicone making it smooth to the touch as very easy to keep clean. We're big advocates of hygiene.

Between its power settings and vibration modes you'll have 36 different frequencies at your fingertips meaning you can achieve more intense and realistic orgasms.

You'll never get caught out, whatever the situation due to its whisper quiet sound levels, usb rechargeable functionality and it's waterproof design. This should defiantly be high on your list of possible rabbit vibrators.

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FIFTY SHADES FREED LOST IN EACH
OTHER RECHARGEABLE RABBIT
LOVE RING

Fancy something a little bit different? Well here it is! If your wanting to share a little stimulation with your lover then this will do the trick.

You're now handing the power and control over to the male with this vibrating cock ring.

He simply slides it down his shaft, with the little rabbit ears pointing upwards. these powerful ears will rub against your clit whilst he thrusts his penis deep inside you.

There are seven vibration patterns and three different speeds he can use against you! There's no escaping this orgasm or three.

The design of the ring is stretchy so the cock ring will fit all shapes and sizes. A little tip from us, get a little lube involved in your sex play!

The Lots in each other rechargeable rabbit love ring is also equipped with a travel lock, for safe flying and the rechargeable batteries will off you 90 minutes of play before you'll need to plug it in. Should give you enough time! ;-)

FIFTY SHADES FREED LOST IN EACH OTHER RECHARGEABLE RABBIT LOVE RING

JESSICA RABBIT
ULTIMATE XXTRA VIBRATOR

Now for one of the old favourites, The Jessica Rabbit Ultimate. Loving Joy have outdone themselves again, it's even better than the first design. Can you believe it?

The designers know how much you all love the vibrations patterns and speed settings so they feature in this rabbit too but they always are looking to improve.

So these clever guys have now inserted a small bullet into the shaft back which also vibrates in time with the ears of the rabbit. The perfect combination!

WOW we hear you say! This not so small bunny has to be tried to be believed. For those of you that like it big, you won't be disappointed!

Ladies, get your hands on this one today!

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FIFTY SHADES OF GREY
GREEDY GIRL RECHARGEABLE
MINI RABBIT VIBRATOR

Now for the few of you that like somethign a little smaller in length then the greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator might just do the job. It's small and chubby!

It comes with all the usual mod cons but packs a real punch for the size. It'll fit perfectly in a small purse for discreet fun on the move.

The ears will achieve serious stimulation levels and guaranteed orgasms like never before.

Both your clit and your g-spot will be pampered silly with the easy to handle Rabbit vibe. The three speeds and seven vibration settings will make sure of that!

It's hard to believe but this awesome little rabbit loves water, has more power than the Duracell bunny and is homed in its very own satin storage bag. This is one to watch!

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SVAKOM ALICE
G-SPOT RABBIT VIBRATOR

Alice is one of our most elegant rabbit vibes. She's armed with dual motors plus dual stimulators on top that double your pleasure every time she is in your grasp.

She's stylish and gorgeous! Alice is made form the the highest quality silicone skin thats's waterproof and will slide into you effortlessly.

She has twin motors under the bonnet which will stimulate inside and outside at the same time. Her eight modes of speed and pulsation is guaranteed to bring to you new orgasmic height every time.

She'll never let you down, she's 100% waterproof and made using 100% green tech. Alice’s body is sleek and smooth for pleasure and satisfaction beyond anything you've ever experienced.

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LOVING JOY DUA
INTERCHANGEABLE VIBRATOR
WITH 2 ATTACHMENTS

The Loving Joy Dua will allow you to experience a world of possibilities. The Dua is something completely different. It comes with 2 different heads that are interchangeable. This means you have double the fun. There's a fitting that turn the due into a wand style vibrator for sensual massage and then there's the rabbit attachment that allows your clit to be tickled into a frenzy. Massage yourself into submission by allowing the vibes to eradicate the stress in your body or swap heads to the ears and enjoy orgasmic pleasure with multiple clitoral and vaginal simulation. You'll be able to forget reality and embrace the orgasmic sensations of the Loving Joy Dua. The possibilities are endless.

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ADRIEN LASTIC G-WAVE
RECHARGEABLE G-SPOT
RABBIT VIBRATOR

The G-Wave has a wavelength all of it's own. It delivers new levels of stimulation with its amazing flexibility. It delivers three different sensations. Clitoral, G-spot and then both combined. The flexible clitoral stimulation gently moves back and forth caressing your clit.

The ribbed bottom has been designed specially for easy insertion and removal.

This rabbit is so gentle even on it's most powerful setting. You've got 10 quiet settings that will get your lips quivering. You can set it to soft for a steady teasing sensation or you can up the speed to an intense rapid vibration.

It's armed with 2 extremely powerful motors. there is one in the shaft and one tucked inside the clit stimulator that provides you with a much more precise sensation.

You will have 140 minutes of complete ecstasy and with the addition of some water-based lube on the top you'll intensify the experience even more. 

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FIFTY SHADES OF GREY
PLEASURE OVERLOAD
GREEDY GIRL PLAY BOX (5 PIECES)

Last but not least you have the full kit brought to you by the Fifty Shades of Grey ultimate collection. This set is definitely designed with couple in mind.

There's the Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibe with flexible rabbit ears delivering a staggering three speeds of vibration and then there's  further three speeds and nine patterns in the shaft.

Then there's the bullet vibrator that just needs 1 x AAA battery (sadly this isn't included).

Keeping you busy there's a single speed couples love ring ( This will require 2 x LR44 (again these are not included)

And finally to keep you under control there's soft handcuffs and a padded blindfold that will keep you in the dark!

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There's absolutely no way you'll be going to bed alone tonight! So which of these fantastic rabbit vibrators will you be taking with you?

Nothing makes a great relationship go sour than boredom. Ever look at your partner and wondered where all the passion, love and excitement have gone? Well, you’re not alone. The flames in a passionate relationship usually fade in as little as 12 months.

So how do you turn the heat back on? What are the steps to reignite the passion? Here are some useful tips on how to spice up your bedroom.

1. Try New Sex Positions

An easy yet effective way to make your sexual life sizzle. If your man is not interested in trying new things, then you may have to take the bull by its horn. You don’t need your man’s permission before trying it out. Just lead and he will follow suit. If you’ve never taken charge in bed before, do that now. Experiment with a new sex position to spice up the heat in your sexual life.

2. Explore Your Fantasies

Every single soul has sexual fantasies. For the fear that their fantasies may sound weird to their partner, some people keep mute. Partners should learn to talk about their sexual fantasies. You don’t have to feel ashamed! The truth is that your partner also wants to explore his fantasies. Consider role play with different sexy costumes that you think might turn you on.

3. Take a Shower Together

The next time your man goes into the shower, give him a little surprise and join him 1 or 2 minutes later. It doesn’t have to be sex. You can give him a deep sensual kiss or wash him. To make this tip more effective, it must be used sparingly.

4. Introduce Sex Toys

One way to achieve new insight into your sexual life is to use sex toys. You can spice things up in the bedroom using a sex toy. No matter your preferences, there is a sex toy for you. Make the bedroom a lot hotter by using sex toys during foreplay. All you need do is to find that toy that you both find comfortable. For those who don’t dare to walk through the door, you can get high quality sex toys from seriouslysensual.co.uk at discounted price and delivered directly to your doorstep discreetly.

5. Sensual Massage

What more could be better than ending your day with a soothing, sensual massage. This is one way to spice up your sex life. Make your partner feel relief from the day’s tension and stress by running those soft, gentle strokes across her skin. Don’t forget the candles and soothing music at the background. Where your hand goes afterwards is your decision alone.

Boredom will not only mess up your sex life but also your love life. Try something new in the bedroom today. Use these tips to make your sex life and relationship fun.

Thinking about trying bondage for the first time?

You certainly aren’t the only one, with more and more people being interested in trying out this fantastic kink.

Bondage is one of the easier components of BDSM culture to try for the first time, as many people may already enjoyed some bondage in the shape of handcuffs or retraining their partner to the bed. 

However, there is a lot more to bondage than meets the eye, and most beginners feel an understandable amount of trepidation when it comes to being restrained or restraining others. But bondage doesn’t need to be daunting for beginners - it can be an amazing experience when done right.

Knowing the various bondage toys to use, how to safely tie certain body parts, knowing each other’s preferences and limits, and avoiding any accidents are some of the main questions’ bondage newbies have. 

So, let’s take a closer look at the dos and don’ts of bondage for beginners to ensure you have the best (and safest) time possible!

Establishing Consent 

As part of BDSM culture bondage often involves role-play where one person is submissive and the other is dominating. With this, the lines of content are blurred, with safe words being used to establish limits when getting tied, spanked, tickled etc. However, it is a good idea for beginners to establish the level of consent during a bondage session before the even get started. For instance, if you want to start at a comfortable pace you should always make sure consent remains strict - no means no in these situations. You may want to add some role-play aspect into these early sessions. For example, you can agree that there will be a certain degree of struggle involved for the person being restrained. Always establish all areas of consent with your partner before trying bondage. That includes who is being tied, who is submissive, if there is any roleplaying involved, whether there are safe words or straight-forward yes/no consent etc.

Safe Words 

While you may not be ready for safe words from the off-set many want to go in headfirst and really embrace the BDSM experience. For these situations it's important to establish a clear safe word - or several safe words. A safe word is basically another word for saying no, stop, or slow down. Because there are different levels to bondage you may feel multiple safe words are a good idea, so try setting one for no, one for slow down, and one for stop. Your safe words shouldn’t be related to sexual activities either. Sometime entirely out of context often works best.

Understand the Body and it's Sensitives 

This is important in bondage for a few reasons. The first is because you should know what part of your partners body may suffer during the bondage, such as an area where the is a long-term injury or condition - think damaged knees, dodgy backs, weaker joints etc. Knowing this is important as you don’t want to cause unnecessary damage during when applying a restraint, which is only going to put you both off the experience if it exasperates a current problem area. Secondly, you need to be aware that some parts of the body are more sensitive to nerve damage than others. For instance, the knees and elbows are usually the most sensitive to damage, so be aware of this when applying restraints to reduce the chances of hurting them, which is more likely when you aren’t experienced using restraints. Oh and don't forget the nipples, they are a very sensitive area to investigate. View our nipple play accessories collection here >>

Safety First 

Using ropes and other restraints is certainly a thrilling experience but only when done safely. It is easier for beginners to get injured from applying too tight a rope or not using the right type of knot, so always take safety precautions before getting started. A good rule of thumb for tying with rope is there should be enough room to fit two fingers when under the rope after it’s applied. It’s a good idea to always have scissors on standby just in case someone ties the restraints too tight however.

Be Aware of Tingling 

Whoever is being tied up during bondage needs to be aware of a tingling sensation in their body, which is a sign that restraints are too tight or that the position is quite uncomfortable. It mostly occurs in the hands, feet, fingers and toes, so keep an eye out for it and tell your partner. You should be okay for around 20-minutes but after that it’s probably a good time to change positions, loosen the restraints, or even switch roles. Rope should never be too tight - you want enough space to wriggle and struggle, with the rope able to move.

If you’ve tried your hand a bondage before you probably know how much fun it is.

Bondage offers a great chance to add a new dimension to your sex life and if you are familiar with the experience then we highly recommend you take things up a notch!

Bondage has many levels to it, so we’re going to take a look at some of the ways to enhance your bondage session with some fun new additions - read on to find out the top bondage tips for pros!

Bondage toys for Professionals

Communicate What You Want 

All good bondage starts with good communication, so be sure to talk with your partner if you’re looking to add something new to proceedings. This allows both of you to know what you want to try out, whether it’s a more advanced restraining technique, adding a new type of toy to the fun, or maybe even switching roles for the first time. Always talk about what you each want to ensure you all get what you want from the experience. Understanding each other’s wants and needs is a must for bondage pros - don’t be afraid to say what you want!

Start Slow and Build from There 

Just like when you first tried bondage, anything you want to add should be done slowly. For instance, if you want to be spanked while you're tied up then don’t start out with a massive paddle or flogger - try using a hairbrush or even just the hand. Start slow and get comfortable with things, building from there into a much more intense activity, but never feel pressured to go too fast too soon. Plus, a slow and steady build up is a great way to work towards an all-mighty crescendo! Check out our bondage collection >>

Blindfolds and Bondage Go Hand-in-Hand  

Being tied up or tying someone else up is seriously kinky, but why add even more kinkiness to things by introducing a blindfold? Blindfolded bondage is one intense experience, ramping things up to a completely new level. Not only is the person restrained but also blind, making every touch, kiss, spank, and movement intensely powerful. Better still, start using different items to draw a reaction, such as ice cubes, melted chocolate, a tickler, or even some candle wax. Buy blindfolds from SeriouslySensual.co.uk >>

Spanking is Great Fun

Now, if you haven’t already tried spanking during some bondage then you are seriously missing out! The lack of control when you are tied down and being spanked is incredibly titillating, even if you aren’t too into pain, as there is something seriously arousing about being spanked when you’re restrained. Those that enjoy a bit of spanking during bondage will be happy to know there are several ways to increase this pleasurable sensation.

It’s all about the different spanking toys, so be sure to try out some different ones to see what works well. Some of the best spanking tools beyond hands include whips, paddles, canes, crops, and floggers. Just remember to spank at a level your partner is comfortable with as it can be quite painful when done a full force. Shop paddles and whips from SeriouslySensual.co.uk >>

Trying Out New Positions 

When it comes to bondage finding the right position often takes some practice, so once you’ve had a bit of experience with basic bondage positions its worth trying more advanced positions. For instance, getting hog tied (lay on your stomach with your hands and ankles tied together behind your back) is extremely kinky and one worth trying for those that love being a sub. The spread-eagle position is another great choice and one that’s no too intense but still sexy as hell.

Simply tie the wrists and ankles to the four posts of a bed, making a note keep the legs well spread for obvious reasons. Both partners get a lot of excitement from this position and it's not too difficult to do. Many kinky acts can be performed with this position, so be sure to try it out. There are many great bondage positions worth trying out, so try do some homework and see what tickles your fancy and then try it out! Bondage sex positions suggested by SeriouslySensual.co.uk >>

Get Rough 

Rough sex during bondage isn’t always the approach to take - many love to use a slow and sensual style, which is a great option for couples that are newer to bondage. That said, when you’re comfortable and ready to go further than before, trying some rough bondage sex is highly recommended. This includes talking dirty, spanking, digging in fingernails, and even a spot of biting. Obviously, don’t go too hard at the risk or injuring each other - just enough roughness is all you need!

We've created a list of other bondage articles that you might also be interested in below:

1. HOW TO MASTER BONDAGE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS

2. TOP 5 BONDAGE & FETISH GEAR

3. BONDAGE TIPS

Here at SeriouslySensual we encourage everyone to experiment with their sex lives, and there are fewer better ways to add some magic to the boudoir than a spot of bondage play.

Restraining each other and getting down and dirty is as kinky as it gets, which is why we implore all couples to try their hand at a spot of bondage play.

Best of all, it could be easier to get started with our bondage and fetish gear products. These items give you everything you need for a wild night of bondage fun - we guarantee you won’t regret it! Check out our top 5 bondage and fetish gear from our online store:

Here's a selection of Bondage and Fetish Gear from SeriouslySensual.co.uk

Fifty Shades Darker Dark Desire Advanced Couples Kit

While the Fifty Shades series gets a lot of stick we think the fact that the books and films have encouraged more people to try bondage is a great thing. For those wanting to get started with a spot of bondage play, we highly recommend this couples set inspired by the Fifty Shades Darker film. It’s got all the best start bondage gear you could hope for, including a soft and silky bondage rope, a sensual blindfold, a spanking paddle, bondage tape, and a selection of vibrating toys for him and her. You can slowly introduce each item into your sex life or go all out and use them at once for an incredible night of bondage play. Whether you want to be bound, gagged, spanked hard, or bit of everything, this advanced couples kit gives you all that you need.

FIFTY SHADES FREED WANT TO PLAY? 10M SILK ROPE

BDSM fans will know all too well how much fun bondage is, with the act of restraining or being restrained incredibly arousing for all involved. However, it’s important to use a suitable restraint to avoid any type of damage when being tied up. Rope is a quintessential part of bondage but not all rope is a good option for a wild night in the bedroom. Instead, we recommend trying out this 10M silk rope, part of our incredible Fifty Shades Darker bondage product range. Suitable for both beginners and experienced users alike, the rope comes with a generous 10m length that makes it suitable for every type of bondage position. There are quite a few different positions you can try with bondage rope, and this product has enough length to try them all, including the more advanced full body positions. It’s got a soft finish as well, so there’s no need to worry about rope burn, while the gold coloured metal tips make it easy to identify each end should you need to untie it quickly.

ELASTIC & CHAINS 2 PC SET BLACK

Bondage isn’t just about being tied up in various positions - you want to look the part too! Some kinky fetish gear will set the mood like nothing else, which is why we love this amazing 2-piece lingerie chain set. As you can see it leaves little to the imagination, which is entirely the point, with the outfit being a great way to tease your better half when tying them up. It has an open front design throughout, meaning bra is open at the cups while the front and back of the panties are also opened. Dainty little chains offer some ‘modest’ coverage and will leave you looking too tempting to resist. Whether you’re being restrained or doing the restraining, this fetish lingerie is the perfect addition to your bondage supplies!

MAZE - ANKLE CUFFS BLACK 

Ankle cuffs are another classic bondage restraint that make for a fun night in. Rather than using rope, handcuffs, or a make-shift restraint, ankle cuffs such as these are designed purposefully for use on the ankles, making them more comfortable and less likely to cause nerve damage to the skin. They lock in place over your angles, keeping your legs close together for a seriously seductive position that is sure to drive him wild. From here, you can try out various other positions and even introduction other bondage items for an unforgettable experience.

INSTRUMENTS OF PLEASURE - ORANGE LEVEL 

Bondage isn’t just about getting tied up - although that is great fun - but also about what you do when you’re restrained. Being blindfolded is a great addition as it increases your other senses like nothing else, combining with the already kinky feeling of being restrained by your partner, while you can do all kinds of other fun stuff at the same time, such as giving an erotic massage. For this you need some good supplies, which is precisely what to expect from this instruments of pleasure kit. It provides a nice selection of bondage goodies, including a satin mask, satin ties, massage oil and scented candle.

These combine for a sensory overload during your bondage play that will produce a truly mind-blowing experience for all involved!

There is nothing quite like adding bondage play into your sex life.

The sensation of being restrained or retraining someone else is unlike anything you can imagine, and once you dip your toe into the world of bondage its hard to step back out.

The great thing about bondage is that it’s suitable for everyone. Whether you’re a newbie looking to try it out for the first time or an aficionado that regularly enjoys bondage in the bedroom, there really is something for everyone. You can try different positions, add all sorts of toys and gear into the equation, while also having the chance to switch up roles from dominating to submissive. Simply put, bondage is amazing and we highly recommend you try it out!

Here are some handy bondage tips that anyone can enjoy!

Talk About What You’d Like to Try

A big part of bondage is power roles between the dominant and the submissive. This process must always be consensual, which is why you want to talk about you’d like to try and where your boundaries are set. You don’t even try to introduce these roles when playing with bondage, although it’s always going to be there to some extent - the person being bound is typically a sub, although the fact their boundaries must be respected could also see them as a dom too, so it’s all a matter of perspective. In any case, always talk with a partner before trying bondage. Talk about what you want to try, what your kinks are and what you enjoy, as well as the things you aren’t interesting in trying. It could be oral sex, spanking, spitting, dirty talk, or a slow and sensual massage - discuss what you’d like to try most! Learning what turns the other person on and what their boundaries are is one of the best parts of bondage - and it occurs before a single restraint is involved!

Dirty Talk Works Well

As we mentioned, bondage isn’t just about getting tied up, as there are all types of sexual activities that can take place during bondage. One of the best examples of this is to try out some dirty talk as you are being tied or tying someone up. For example, if you like being the submissive partner then you can say as much, calling yourself naughty, bad girl, begging for forgiveness etc. Dirty talk doesn’t need to be BDSM themed during bondage but it's often a fine addition when done in this way. Regardless, dirty talk gives both people the chance to talk about their desires and pleasures during bondage play. You can create hot fantasies you’ve always wanted and really build up the anticipation of bondage without even using a restraint.
 

Blindfolds Work Too

Much like dirty talk blindfolds are a fine addition to some bondage play. By adding sensory deprivation to the play, the person being tied and blindfolded can be teased and stimulated to the point of a sensory overload - its quite the experience and one well worth trying. Bondage and blindfolds don’t even require touching. Simply whispering into the ear of the restrained partner can build a tantalising amount of tension, then upping the ante with some soft kissing and ticking will result in one almighty climax - or possibly several! Take 5 minutes to browse through our collection of blindfolds >>

Massage Candles have a few uses

Massage candles are a great way to create the perfect ambience for some sensual bondage play, but they can also be used for temperature play, although it’s a good idea to get candles suitable for such activities. For instance, you can alternate between hot and cold sensations using candle wax and ice to on the restrained individual, with things feeling even more intense when blindfolded. Drizzling wax onto a partner is incredible arousing for both people, just make sure you don’t use ordinary candle wax as this is usually too warm for most people. Check out some of our own low-temperature burning candles that are perfect for bondage adventures!

Do Some Homework

As restraints are the cornerstone of all bondage activities, it’s a good idea to do some homework to get an idea of the types of knots to tie and what positions you can try out with restraints. Basic knots are fine for most people - there’s no need to go for anything overly fancy. In fact, it could be argued that knowing your knots is more important for understanding how to quickly untie them should someone start to feel sore or uncomfortable. Take a closer look through our completre bondage collection >>