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28 Oct 14:04

The Key to Frugality: Where’s the Thrill?

by NoelFigart

I was doing the family books this morning and noticed an  expenditure that looked kind of excessive. I talked to my husband about it, laughed and commented, “You know, we could stop doing that, put the money we’d normally spend on it in a savings account each month, then go on a cruise.”

Yeah, I know, I tagged the post “frugality”, and here I am talking cruises.

There’s a reason for that.

Once your basic needs are met (and yes, being good with money can help with that), being careful with your money is about living deliberately – making sure you actually have what you want to have, and thinking carefully about what that is.

Here’s one: Coffee. I love a good coffee. Do I go out to the coffee store chain and buy it?

Only if I am traveling. I have a Chemex and do my own pour-overs. Shoot, I even used to make them at work rather than buy the coffee available at the café. I’m not getting a lesser thing or doing without something I love. Rather the opposite! What I love is really good coffee, and I know how to make it, so I do.

If what I loved was the experience of the coffee shop, then buying the coffee in the shop would be the better choice.

The thing is, you can’t know where the thrill is until you know where the money is going.

If you want to save money, record every penny you spend

While I do use financial software (I run a small business), a free Google Docs spreadsheet would work just fine. Both my father and my son use a spreadsheet, and it works for them. There are lots of free financial tracking apps available if you have a smartphone. When my husband and I were first married, we didn’t have a computer, and this record was kept on paper. It doesn’t matter what format you use. The point is to write down everything you buy.

Doughnut? Write it down. Classify it as Food. If you really want to get granular, you can break it down as Groceries and Restaurants, but you don’t necessarily have to when you get started.

Maserati tune-up? Write it down. Classify it as Auto. Again, if you’re going for granularity, you could classify it as Auto: Service, but when getting started, you probably don’t need to take it that far.

You can make up classifications that make sense to you but don’t go too crazy with it. The important thing is to make it relatively easy to make this a habit.

At first, it’s not going to seem particularly useful. There will be expenses where you’ll say, “Yeah, but I don’t exactly replace the tires every month. This month was an exception.”

The thing is, after you keep this up over a period of about a year, patterns emerge. You find out that you go out to dinner every two weeks on payday. This is actually neither good nor bad. While we all know that eating out is much more expensive than cooking your own meals, the point isn’t that you should only make the cheap choices.

The point is, are you following a general habit that isn’t really providing a kick for you, or are you doing something you truly and consciously love to do?

You might look at those meals out and say to yourself, “Sure I enjoy it, but I don’t get $200 a month’s worth of enjoyment out of it! I think I’m going to cut back to once a month.”

You might look at those meals out and say, “Oh man, dinner out just makes me smile every time I think about it. I love doing that having people around me and being waited on. In fact, I’m cutting back on buying yarn for knitting, because this is something that’s really worth my time and money to do.”

You might look at those meals out and say, “The thing that gives me a kick for those dinners is the candlelight, the well-presented meal, and the nice place setting.” You’re also a good cook, have a tablecloth, candlesticks, and nice china, so you decide that you’re going to make fancy meals for yourself more often and buy those high-end knitting needles you’ve had your eye on, or put it in savings because what you really want is the security of knowing that if an emergency comes up, you have it covered.

Notice that the different ways of looking at it. In each case, it’s the combination of knowing what you’re doing and what you’re spending plus knowing what it is about it that’s giving you the thrill. In each case, you can make a conscious choice to get the best value out of your money by spending wisely.

06 Oct 05:47

Kroppen – ett självreglerande system!

by Martina

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Många blir väldigt oroliga över vad kroppen hittar på. Allt från ”keto rash” till att vara väldigt hungrig, törstig eller väldigt mätt och inte känna så stort behov av att äta.

Vad man behöver komma ihåg då är att kroppen är ett självreglerande system. Den går in i olika faser, och det bästa man kan göra är att bara ”go with the flow” istället för att kämpa emot.

Ta som exempel tillfällig aptitlöshet. Istället för att oroa sig för att man håller på att svälta ihjäl, och äta trots att man inte är hungrig, är det bättre att acceptera kroppens signaler. Aptitlöshet inträffar ofta när man är sjuk, och det beror på att kroppen läker bäst under fasta. Den vill fokusera på läkning och inte bli störd av massa krävande matspjälkningsprocesser. 

Om man är inne i en ”hungrig period” är det samma sak där. Käka på och lita på att kroppen behöver näringen.

Precis som att feber är en reaktion på en inflammation eller infektion, är ”keto rash” och olika hudutslag en reaktion på att kroppen jobbar med dig, inte emot dig. Den försöker läka sig själv och vädra ut skräp. Om man behandlar de här symptomen med medicin, förhalar man bara processen!

Jag fick en kommentar som fick mig att hoppa till av förskräckelse. En läsare som behandlade sina keto-rash med bredspektrum antibiotika… låt inte detta hända dig! Du kommer ha dina utslag så länge din kropp har saker den vill och måste bli av med! 

KETOGEN KOST GÖR ATT SIGNALERNA HÖRS HÖGRE!

Om man är fri från sötningsmedel, socker, mejerier, gluten och allting som är ”gott” så blir kroppens signaler väldigt tydliga. Om man är hungrig blir man sugen på kokta ägg och en välstekt makrill till exempel. Man blir inte sugen på chokladkaka. Mitt kaffesug har gått ned något enormt de senaste månaderna. Jag dricker kaffe, men det har minskat från flera kannor per dag (när det var som värst) till att jag knappt dricker upp en (liten) kopp. Ibland glömmer jag kaffet efter 3 munnar, för att kroppen vill naturligtvis inte ha kaffe. Inte egentligen.

Nyligen fick jag en släng av en kort men intensiv förkylning. Troligen på grund av massa flygresor på kort tid och låååånga stunder (över 30 timmar) utan sömn. Då valde jag att inte köpa några panodil, nässpray, halstabletter eller någonting utan bara vara i min kropp och känna varje steg av förkylningen. Detta har jag lärt mig genom Vipassana meditation, och det är inom vipassana-kretsar ett säkert sätt att bli frisk snabbt. På 2 dagar gick jag från 39 graders feber, hosta, svullen hals och rinnande näsa till helt frisk, och jag är övertygad om att det gick snabbt för att jag vågade lita på kroppen till 100%.

Min övertygelse är också att man får maximalt snygg kropp av att lyssna på den, och låta kroppens behov styra. Det är därför man både mår bra och ser bra ut i ketos, för att man är i ett kontinueligt tillstånd av läkande där falska begär inte får något spelrum.  

Inlägget Kroppen – ett självreglerande system! dök först upp på Martina Johansson.

05 Oct 04:33

mattgoldey: Supergirl stunt-woman and American Ninja Warrior...









mattgoldey:

Supergirl stunt-woman and American Ninja Warrior Jessie Graff posing for the greatest red carpet photos ever taken at the Emmys last night.

04 Oct 04:14

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29 Sep 16:28

Scientists Just Discovered a Major New Source of Carbon Emissions

by Maddie Stone on Gizmodo, shared by Mario Aguilar to io9
Scientists Just Discovered a Major New Source of Carbon Emissions
Image: Wikimedia

File this under bad news for humanity’s climate ambitions: The dams and reservoirs we use to harness ‘clean’ hydroelectric power and irrigate our crops apparently emit carbon. A lot of it. All told, man-made reservoirs release roughly a gigaton of heat-trapping greenhouse gases each year. That’s more than the entire nation of Canada.

Scientists interested in quantifying humanity’s carbon footprint have been on the trail of man-made reservoirs since the early 2000s. Most studies to date have focused on a single type of reservoir—those used for electricity production, for instance—and just one or two greenhouse gases. Now, researchers at Washington State University have synthesized prior research to examine a wide variety of reservoirs and heat-trapping molecules. Their analysis, which appears next week in Bioscience, comes to a disturbing conclusion.

All told, reservoirs used for everything from power to flood control to irrigation account for roughly 1.3 percent of our global carbon footprint, much higher than previous estimates. The main culprit, according to the study, is methane.

“We had a sense that methane might be pretty important but we were surprised that it was as important as it was,” lead study author Bridget Deemer said in a statement. “It’s contributing right around 80 percent of the total global warming impact of all those gases from reservoirs.”

Methane is a potent greenhouse gas, with 84 times the global warming potential of CO2. The reason reservoirs are such hotbeds for the stuff has to do with how they are made. When carbon-rich soils are inundated, they quickly run out of oxygen, promoting the growth of microorganisms that respire CO2 and produce methane as a byproduct. This is the same reason swamps often smell like a giant fart: they are literally filled with billions of tiny methane factories.

“We found that the estimates of methane emissions per area of reservoir are about 25 percent higher than previously thought, which we think is significant given the global boom in dam construction, which is currently underway,” Deemer told the Washington Post.

In a sense, the timing of the discovery is fortuitous, given that world leaders are on the verge of ratifying a treaty that would begin the process of decarbonizing the global economy. With one more piece of the carbon budget accounted for, we can make better decisions about how to reduce our greenhouse footprint.

The solution, of course, will not be to abolish reservoirs, but to take their carbon emissions into consideration and make more aggressive cuts where we can. Clearly, the task ahead is going to be even more challenging than we thought.

[WSU News, Washington Post]

29 Sep 04:38

Why Sleep Is So Important When You're Trying to Build Muscle

by Patrick Allan

You can do intense workouts, eat the right foods, and take the right supplements, but your muscles won’t grow without decent sleep.

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28 Sep 20:03

Beautiful Curvy Disney Pinup Illustrations [Geek Art]

by Geeks are Sexy

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Artist Ashleigh Beevers created a series of beautiful illustration picturing various Disney pricesses as beautiful curvy pinups. For those interested, all of these are available for purchase as prints via her etsy shop located right here. Pictured above: Belle.

Ariel

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Merida

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Rapunzel

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Tiana

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Ursula

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Tinkerbell

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I love it when artists take a different approach compared to what we usually see online, and these are a perfect example of this!

[Source: Ashleigh Beevers Art | Via GG]

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28 Sep 04:44

Introducing the SpaceX Interplanetary Transport System

by Geeks are Sexy
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HOW COOL!?

So, who’s signing up to be on board? Watch the video below!

Impressive, isn’t it? Now the question is, how many years will it take until we see an actual version of this spaceship? Elon Musk hopes that we will be sending humans to Mars by 2024.

“The basic game plan is we’re going to send a mission to Mars with every Mars opportunity from 2018 onwards. They occur approximately every 26 months. We’re establishing cargo flights to Mars that people can count on for cargo.”

-Elon Musk

[Space X]

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27 Sep 17:52

"From March 2003: Great conversations of our time, with Maddy age 8. Today – Swearing, in..."

“From March 2003: Great conversations of our time, with Maddy age 8. Today – Swearing, in Songs.
She was wandering around singing the Future Bible Heroes “Vampire” song this evening. Then she stopped, mid-line and said, “You know, there’s swearing in that song. Is it okay for me to sing it?”
I blinked. “There’s swearing in it?”
“Yes. It goes… (whispers) ‘swear’, (sings) I am what I am what I am, and I am impossibly glam…”
“Er. 'Swear’?”
“Yes….(half-whispers, confidentially) 'Damn’.”
“Oh. Damn. Right. I wouldn’t worry about it.”
“And it also has (half whispers) bitch in it too. (Raps) I am the bitch-goddess from beyond your grave.”
“Again, I wouldn’t worry about it, and I don’t think bitch in that context is swearing anyway. I mean the word means female dog.”
“Like the shitzu in 'Fido your leash is too long’ which kind of sounds like 'shit’?”
“Er. Right. Sort of like that. Anyway, it’s nice to hear you singing, and I’m absolutely not worried about the swearing in Stephin Merritt songs.”
“Oh good. Then I’m not either. (sings, lustily) How fucking romantic, all the stars are out…””

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http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2003/01/hah-i-knew-that-one-day-search-thingie.asp


The Magnetic Fields are on tour this December: http://www.houseoftomorrow.com/tour/  This does not happen often. You should see them if you possibly can.

27 Sep 04:49

Signal, the Encrypted Chat App, Is Now Available on the Desktop

by Thorin Klosowski

Chrome: Signal, the encrypted chat app built by Open Whisper Systems and approved by the likes of Edward Snowden, is now available as a desktop app through Chrome.

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25 Sep 07:29

myjetpack: For the Guardian



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For the Guardian

23 Sep 06:10

capusso: Neil Gaiman’s newest book. Some years ago, on a...



capusso:

Neil Gaiman’s newest book.

Some years ago, on a stage in a university in China, I watched the audience shout at the translator, who shouted back at them, when I talked about American Gods. After the talk was done, I learned that the translator was convinced that I could not have said American Gods and had to have been talking about American Dogs. The audience, who were familiar with my book and many of whom spoke English, disagreed. The translator told them he knew what he was talking about, and continued to translate the book as American Dogs for the rest of my talk.

23 Sep 05:39

The Frogman is creating Photography, Comedy | Patreon

The Frogman is creating Photography, Comedy | Patreon:

sirfrogsworth:

So, things are rough. My bank account is in single digits by the end of each month. I’m trying to start a photography business, but I am low on clients. I’ve been saving up for a new camera because mine is old and finicky. But I keep having to use the money I save on food and medical bills. I can’t seem to get ahead.

One thing people have been telling me to do is start a patreon. I would love to, but I have some concerns. I would have to actually produce content again to earn support. With my health in flux, I worry that will be an issue. Nonetheless, I think I am going to give it a try. I have two pieces of content that I hope to publish monthly (health permitting).

First a new webcomic with my friend Chris Gugliotti. It is a buddy comedy where Chris and I travel through time in a converted porta-potty.

And the second piece of content would be a series of photo projects. Much like the pin-up shoot I did a while back.

Again, I would try to do this monthly, but that is completely dependent on my health.

And, of course, I will be curating thefrogman.me trying to post positive content and updating sirfrogsworth with all of my life’s adventures.

So that’s what you would be getting with your patronage.

The money pledged will go towards paying Chris for the artwork, funding the photoshoots (props, dresses, models, etc), and helping me with my personal expenses like food and medical bills. Perhaps I can even save up for that new camera I need. Who knows?

So that’s the deal. If you think it’s worthy of a pledge, I thank you. But if you fear my health is too big a risk to deliver on these things, I understand if you choose to forego signing on.

I’m trying very hard to get my health in shape. I would try very hard to deliver on this. Worse case scenario is that some of the content is delayed. But I would try my damnedest to make sure that doesn’t happen.

So, for your consideration, here is my Patreon.

20 Sep 21:04

About 42

By maped
"Forty-two," said Deep Thought, with infinite majesty and calm.”


20 Sep 05:50

captcreate: Surprise, motherfucker.



captcreate:

Surprise, motherfucker.

19 Sep 05:35

awwww-cute: When you get buried in snow but your dog is a...



awwww-cute:

When you get buried in snow but your dog is a retriever (Source: http://ift.tt/2cWFFHL)

16 Sep 10:58

SwiftKey börjar utnyttja neuronnät

by Lars A
SwiftKey börjar utnyttja neuronnät

För ett år sedan släppte SwiftKey experimentet Neural Alpha som utnyttjar maskininlärning och neuronnät för att förutspå ord. Nu har tekniken implementerats i skarpa, vanliga SwiftKey vilket innebär att tangentbordet förstår sammanhang och likhet mellan ord bättre.

Resultatet är mer intelligenta ordförslag när du skriver. Språkmotorn har gjorts om från grunden med neuronnät som ligger lokalt på din smartphone. Som exempel nämner utvecklaren frasen ”Vi ses på flygplatsen”.

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Neuronnätet gör att tangentbordet inser att ”kontoret och ”hotellet” är liknande ord som också skulle kunna passa i sammanhanget, och föreslår dessa. SwiftKey sägs även kunna inse likheten med andra meningar av ungefär samma typ, något som ska förbättra både förslagen och autokorrigeringen.

SwiftKey med neuronnät (artificiell intelligens) kan laddas hem från Google Play.

Inlägget SwiftKey börjar utnyttja neuronnät dök först upp på Swedroid.

16 Sep 05:38

The Role of Frugality in Long-Term Financial Success

by Trent Hamm

Like many people who suddenly realize how bad their financial situation is, we dove hard into frugality during the first few months of our financial turnaround.It makes sense, really. Frugality is the best personal finance tactic there is for seeing immediate results.

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15 Sep 19:39

rionsanura: neil-gaiman: youareiron-andyouarestrong: This is...



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neil-gaiman:

youareiron-andyouarestrong:

This is the best interaction between two of my favorite writers I’ve ever seen @neil-gaiman and @linmanuel

Ah yes. But why a BEAVER?

That’s not a beaver, that’s a giant vole. You can tell by the tiny nose.

This is a beaver.

Oh hive mind of Tumblr. So much wisdom.

11 Sep 18:28

forlackofabettercomic: MFW my memory is a garbage fire





forlackofabettercomic:

MFW my memory is a garbage fire

10 Sep 18:33

blazepress: All grown up.



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All grown up.

10 Sep 16:53

The Day a Man Asked For Spotify’s Hand in Marriage [Pics]

by Geeks are Sexy
08 Sep 19:44

In Which I Turn Out To Be a Surprisingly Poor Agent of White Genocide

by John Scalzi

So, yesterday, after engaging on Twitter with some particularly low-wattage racists who were exercised about, you know, jackass racist things, I made the following observation:

Which these fellows, because they are, as previously mentioned, low-wattage racists, who also apparently don’t understand how language works, took to mean that I was fully endorsing the idea of white genocide.

Well, this was news to me — as a general rule, I don’t endorse genocide of any sort, it just seems rude — but on the other hand I didn’t want to disappoint. So, today I thought I’d give white genocide a try. Here’s how it went (some of these are in reply to others’ questions about the white genocide; click on the tweet for the question).

Having scheduled the white genocide, I went off to attend the rest of the day.

And then it was time!

Seriously, I’m the worst white genocider ever. Sorry.


06 Sep 13:52

Someone Made the House from Up in Real Life!

by Remy Carreiro

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The house from UP is real! I feel like my soul just grew a little more content in knowing that. I know this may be older news to some of you, but I never knew it happened, and didn’t know it existed, and in finding out, my first thought was I wanted to share it. So if some of you have seen this, sorry, but for the few who haven’t, perhaps they are as in awe of it as I am.

So what you are seeing is real. Yup!

The contractor contacted Disney and signed a contract that they COULD do it, but the fine print was there can only be ONE Up house ever made, and so they had it specially made for a couple (who have not made themselves known or how much it cost them open to the public) and now there is a real UP house, recreated perfectly, sans balloons of course. Would not want that house floating away again.

Rumor is the couple may have faced some hardship over the house since, but I refuse to look deeper into this and be crying over it all over again. The movie did that enough to me, I don’t need it to do it again.

Editor’s note: The house is located in Utah, and for those who want to visit or take photos of it, you can do so… for a fee.

(source)

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05 Sep 09:35

Google bekräftar nedläggningen av Project Ara

by Lars A
Google bekräftar nedläggningen av Project Ara

I fredags rapporterade Reuters att Google slutat arbeta på Project Ara. Nu har företaget bekräftat nedläggningen, utan en närmare förklaring. Google avser inte längre att föra en modulär smartphone till marknaden, efter att ha arbetat med satsningen i cirka tre år.

Så sent som under I/O i maj menade Google att en utvecklarmodell var planerad för hösten, med släpp av konsumentversion nästa år. Enligt Reuters ursprungliga rapport är Aras nedläggning en del av Googles strömlinjeformning av hårdvarusatsningarna.

Inlägget Google bekräftar nedläggningen av Project Ara dök först upp på Swedroid.

03 Sep 18:47

Rejoice, You Can Make Mochi Ice Cream At Home

by Stephanie Lee

Delicious mochi prides itself on being soft and chewy. Making such mochi is normally a laborious, violent, and rather dangerous process. This homemade mochi ice cream recipe doesn’t require any risky pounding or slapping though; just sweet glutinous rice flour, sugar, water, ice cream, and a can-do attitude.

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03 Sep 17:52

Desensitization [Comic]

by Geeks are Sexy

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[Source: Sadcomic]

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02 Sep 05:11

Why Spotty Fruits and Vegetables Are Perfectly Safe to Eat

by Patrick Allan

Dark spots on fruits and vegetables can make them look unappetizingn and spoiled, but they’re actually just as edible as the spot-free ones. Here’s why.

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01 Sep 17:21

Why You Definitely Need to Calibrate Your TV

by Thorin Klosowski

When you drop hundreds on an HDTV, you expect it to work out of the box. Yet somehow, in 2016, we still have to tweak color settings, adjust brightness, and make other changes to get the best picture. How is it possible that with all the technical leaps televisions have made over the years, TVs still require calibration?

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29 Aug 05:13

The University of Chicago, Trigger Warnings and Safe Spaces

by John Scalzi

Last week the University of Chicago caused a bit of an uproar by sending out a letter to incoming students telling them not to expect intellectual safe spaces or trigger warnings when it came to critical inquiry. This caused celebration in some quarters and consternation in others, in both cases in no small part to the use of the phrases “safe spaces” and “trigger warnings,” which are apprehended in different ways by different general audiences, cutting roughly but not exclusively along US liberal/conservative lines.

I am a University of Chicago graduate, and having come out of its classically liberal educational ethos, I have some thoughts on the letter, and on the general matter of intellectual inquiry, and on safe spaces and trigger warnings and so on and so forth. Note that a lot of this follows on (and may repeat) what I’ve written about free speech and other related topics before, so some of this may seem familiar to you.

1. In a very general sense, as a graduate, what I understood the University of Chicago letter to mean is this: “When you get here, your previous notions are going to be confronted and challenged and sometimes this process might be deeply uncomfortable for you. We find this to be a feature, not a bug.” Which I find to be a largely unobjectionable sentiment, when it comes to education and the development of the individual. You have to be confronted, you have to be challenged, and you have to learn the skills that allow you to robustly defend your point of view and to abandon that point of view when it is not tenable, and come to a new understanding through the process. This is all very Hegelian — thesis, antithesis, synthesis — which means it’s very Chicago, where Hegel might as well be the school mascot.

2. I thought the Dean of Students did a less than 100% excellent job in conveying this particular point, choosing to spice up his letter to the kids with lingo to show how he’s hip and with it, or something, in the process letting shouty people drag the letter out and wave it about for their own purposes. So, yeah, well done, there, dean. Additionally, I’m not entirely sure that that message in that particular letter was necessary. This is the University of Chicago, guys. Is anyone who actually intends to attend unaware that the university prides itself on rigorous examination, discussion and debate? Basically, I found the letter a bit silly. If I were an instructor (or an editor), I would have sent it back with the instruction to tone down the posturing and just get to the meat of the letter sooner.

3. I think it’s good and fine and necessary that an education requires confronting one’s own thoughts and beliefs, subjecting them to the crucible of inquiry and discussion, and thus tempering the quality of one’s own beliefs as a result. What is equally important — and what in my experience Chicago was good at, and a thing not conveyed very well by the letter — is that those leading these excursions, the professors and other instructors, work the room. Which means not only leading discussion but also focusing and shaping it and creating an environment in which every student can be a component of the discussion. Which can mean anything from making sure a couple of egotistical loudmouths don’t just drone on every goddamn class session, to drawing out those students who might otherwise feel like there’s no percentage in making their own points. You can only robustly interrogate beliefs and assumptions when everyone who is there to learn knows they can speak. That’s on the instructors, and professors, and on the University as a whole. I believe Chicago does that — or did, when I was there — and that’s something I wish was better articulated.

4. Likewise, the educational process is more (and better) than some sort of Intellectual Thunderdome where the validity of a point of view is decided solely through trial by combat. Robust interrogation of one’s point of view by others is a thing, and a necessary thing, but is not the only thing. There are all sorts of ways to learn, to acquire knowledge, assess and reassess one’s ground assumptions, and come to a better understanding of the world therein. My Chicago experience had a lot of me squaring off against some other student — or a professor! Screw you, Dr. Whoever! I have points I’m gonna make and I will fight you on them — but just as much if not more of my education was spent doing other things, from quiet reading to co-operative participation to just shutting up and letting someone more knowledgeable and experienced than I was show me something I didn’t already know.

5. Over on Twitter the other day I noted the following:

Which made a lot of conservatives on Twitter really rather foamy, bloviating about how they never ask for safe spaces, harupmh harumph, gwaaaaaaaar. Which I found pretty funny. First because I found it non-responsive to the point that Chicago’s policy means that all points of view will be open to interrogation, which will include conservative points of view that new students might bring in. Having seen more than a couple of young conservatives at Chicago walk into a moving fan blade of people as smart as they were, with better command of facts and rhetoric, and coming out rather upset and angry with the experience, I’m not at all convinced every young conservative is ready to have their own baseline assumptions challenged. I expect some will assume Chicago is an implictly “safe space” for them, like, as it happens, most of the rest of their world. Which of course is the point: when (some) conservatives like to brag that they never ask for safe spaces, that’s very much like a fish bragging that it never asks for water.

Let me suggest a radical idea (which is to say, it’s not really radical at all), which is that the ability to take a challenge to one’s fundamental precepts of the world, and the enthusiasm to engage with those who oppose those precepts, is largely orthogonal to one’s political views. There are liberal-minded folks who love to walk into a room full of people ready to hate them and bellow, bring it, suckas; there are conservatives who are the most special of special snowflakes who ever wafted down, weeping precious and icy tears. And vice-versa, and the same no matter where one plots one’s self on a multi-dimensional political chart.

I might suggest a salient difference between liberal and conservatives in this regard is that many of the groups that traditionally comprise the liberal coalition — minorities, women, LGBTQ+ — don’t have the baseline assumption of safety in the world that generally white, generally straight conservatives do. This makes it easier for (some) conservatives to pretend that don’t in fact expect to have their worldview coddled and allowed for every bit as much as they accuse liberals of doing. And when they run into a buzzsaw that shreds their worldview — as they will at Chicago, almost guaranteed — their perhaps previously unrealized assumption that Chicago was “safe” for them, intellectually, is going into the hopper.

6. With respect to the University of Chicago specifically, it’s been suggested that one reason for the letter is a bit of institutional territory marking (see this Vox article) basically telling the kids that the sort of protesting that works at other schools isn’t going to fly at Chicago, so don’t even bother. While I’m not at all convinced that this is really what the letter was about, it is absolutely true that institutionally speaking the University of Chicago doesn’t take kindly to protesting. When I attended Chicago, I wrote an in-depth series of articles about when, in the 1960s, Chicago students, like other students at elite universities, took over the administration building as a protest (in the case of Chicago, for a popular teacher being dropped). Chicago’s response, basically, was to wait out the protesters, discipline a stack of the students for being a nuisance, and then never speak about it again (the teacher was not rehired, either). This last year, the president of the student government at Chicago barely escaped with his degree after he allowed students into the administration building for a different protest (seriously, don’t screw with the administration building. They get annoyed and they will punish you).

But again, I don’t think the letter was a warning so much as a poorly expressed declaration of intellectual intent. Yes, the school and/or students will occasionally bring in people to speak whom you hate. No, your protests won’t stop it. Deal. Which again is a very Chicago thing to do.

7. How do I personally feel about safe spaces and trigger warnings in a general sense? With regard to the latter, I think they’re fine, and often courteous. I think the world has come to place where we understand people have their various sensitivities, and if it would be a kindness to give people a heads up that something involves violence or racism or whatever, sure, why not? It’s not censorship to make people aware they should prepare (which ironically, means you could say that silly letter was a trigger warning letting students know about their future lack at the school — in which case, very sneaky, Chicago).

As for safe spaces, my own understanding is that it’s also generally fine and courteous to give people space to despressurize and relax and be themselves, often without me around (or at least, if I am around, with me following rules others set). This is, I will be the first to admit, a very simplistic approach to what the concept of a safe space is. But it’s the foundation on which I build out complexity regarding the subject.

Also, you know. I don’t feel obliged to pretend “trigger warnings” are a liberal phenomenon; when they’re basically conservative, they’re usually called “ratings.” Movie, TV and video game ratings, content advisory notes on music, etc — none of which in the US are currently dictated by the government, incidentally — they’re pretty much so people don’t get triggered (or get triggered by their children seeing something inconvenient for them as parents). I don’t really have an opposition to ratings either. I mean, hell, back at the turn of the century I ran a video game site specifically calling out game elements ranging from violence to drug use to racism to nudity so people could decide whether or not to get a game, or get it for their kids, or be prepared for that content when it happened (here’s one of the reviews). You know, kind of like trigger warnings. Conservative folks loved the site. But that’s different! Well, no. It’s really not.

Likewise I can think of several places online and off which qualify as “safe spaces” for non-liberals, where like-minded people go to rest and relax and not have to feel like they always have to be looking over their shoulder for the politically correct thought police, etc and so on, places that have rules that you have to follow, set by moderators or owners or whomever, and if you don’t like it, there’s the door. Whether they’re called “safe spaces” or not is neither here nor there. Apply the duck test to it.

And that’s fine too — with safe spaces and trigger warnings, however you choose to label them, everyone needs their gathering holes and has their sensitivities and desires companionship with others whose journey is similar to theirs. Sometimes you need a respite from the world, because very often the world is work. It’s courteous to let others have them, and if necessary, to offer them. It would be lovely if people stopped pretending they don’t exist all across the human experience, including across the political spectrum.

8. I don’t believe the Chicago approach, or that silly letter, means fewer liberals (or conservatives! Or any other political orientation!) are going to come out of the school, a belief buttressed by looking at the rather wide cross-section of political positions and opinions that its alumni espouse. A school that counts both Saul Alinsky and Milton Friedman among its graduates can encompass a wide scope of thought; the alumni issuing forth from it since the heady days of the tenure of Alinsky and Friedman appear similarly varied in their politics. This is good for the school and it’s good for the people who attend it today — they are going to meet up with people not like them, and argue with them, and hopefully come away with a better understanding of opposing positions, and their own. And who knows? Maybe they’ll even become and remain friends with people who don’t think in lockstep with them. It happens. It happened to me. And that is a definite positive of a Chicago education.