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16 Apr 20:50

Woman Dies, Leaves $50,000 to Be Divided Amongst Her Cats

by Kelly Faircloth

Woman Dies, Leaves $50,000 to Be Divided Amongst Her Cats

A woman died and left her five cats $10,000 each. You will probably not be surprised to learn that legal trouble quickly followed. Picture a Bleak House remake featuring feuding Brooklyn cat ladies.

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28 Mar 09:24

Tickle helps you Escape Awkward Situations

by swissmiss
Lisa.cheong

for joie. so jade doesn't have to call you mid-way through dates anymore!

Tickle is an app (concept?) to help you escape awkward situations. Using your phone’s accelerometer, Tickle can sense awkward gestures, and in turn, generate a phantom phone call to allow you to gracefully excuse yourself from whatever awkward situation you’re in. This made me laugh and double check if it’s not April 1st.

UPDATE: It’s a joke. Bummer.

28 Mar 09:23

Remembering my grandma

by drewscape
Lisa.cheong

grandmas with scoops and water vats.



Pilot Falcon with spencerian mod + photoshop

16 Dec 00:19

The Power Of Empathy, Animated

by swissmiss

In this beautifully animated RSA Short, Dr Brené Brown reminds us that we can only create a genuine empathic connection if we are brave enough to really get in touch with our own fragilities.

09 Dec 20:29

Riot in Little India - What could happen next: Considerations and Consequences

by mjuse
I was a little surprised to hear that a riot happened last night in Little India. But not very.

The benefits and necessities of massive immigration have been repeated ad nauseum by the government. In contrast, for years, I have warned of the unintended consequences of immigration, which include erosion of social cohesion and the increased risk of civil unrest.

I do not intend to recap the details of the Little India riot in this post. If you are reading this, you should be well-apprised of the details reported in local media. What I will discuss are perspectives that I think not many people will realize, and what I think will happen next.


That a riot happened is not a surprise. That Singaporeans are genuinely shocked is.

Seriously, with fully 30% of the population here foreign-born, and a large chunk of migrant labor coming from lower educated and poorer countries with more violent histories of protest than Singapore, why should it be a surprise that a riot can occur? Forbes has an article with a similar sentiment as mine.

The police commissioner said that "the incident last night was not the Singapore way".

Indeed. However, one third of the population here is not Singaporean. On balance, looking at the sheer numbers of immigrants, arguing that everyone who lives here should conform to the "Singapore way" is foolhardy at best, and at worst, rings of either naivete or hubris.

As to why foreign workers could be so unhappy as to riot in the streets, I do not know. It could simply be a case of emotions running high after seeing a kinsman fatally knocked down and then escalating into a riot.

What I do know is that based on well-documented incidents by TWC2 of how foreign workers are abused in Singapore, there are plenty of reasons for a foreign worker in Singapore to be less than happy. If later investigations reveal an underlying current of simmering resentment that drove the workers to riot, I would not be surprised to find out.


The government has no good choices of how to respond to this incident. Humpty Dumpty can't be put back together again.

A riot by foreign workers happened last night. Nothing can change that fact.

This raises so many obvious questions among Singapore citizens and residents.

Is it safe in Singapore? Is it safe to go to Little India?
Why did the riot happen?
Will riots happen again?
How should the rioters be dealt with?
What will this do to labor relations with our migrant workers?
What does this mean for our country's immigration policy?

The most damaging consequence of this incident is that it illustrates that Singapore is not immune to civil unrest. The illusion that massive uncontrolled immigration is an unalloyed good has been shattered.

That the riot was caused by foreign workers calls into question the wisdom of our immigration policy AND underscores the importance of how we as citizens and Singaporeans navigate our relationships with the foreigners in our midst.

The government has no good choices as to how to respond to this incident. If they are seen as not prosecuting the arrested to the fullest extent of the law and meting out justice, some Singaporeans, the more xenophobic ones, will perceive this as softness. Already, we can read comments online excoriating the rioters and blaming them for threatening Singapore's stability.

If the government does not exercise restraint in its response however, the consequences could be dire too. A harsh response could be reasoned to have a deterrent effect; yet it could equally have a inflammatory effect and lead to a higher likelihood of more riots and civil disturbances, such as strikes.

Remember, there are thousands of foreign workers here. And even though we think of rioting as irrational behavior, when you are a foreign worker in a foreign land incensed at what you perceive as unfair treatment of your peers, the calculus of what is 'rational' is very different.

Even irrational behavior looks reasonable when you can find enough people to agree with you, and again I remind the reader, we have thousands of foreign workers here.

If I were an employer in the construction industry hiring hundreds of foreign workers, I would be worried.


"With so much chaos, someone will do something stupid."

I'm aware that I'm probably hyperventilating a little here, but let's hope that no one actually does something stupid, either foreigner or Singaporean. Something stupid meaning another incident that could fan the flames of discord and lead to another major civil disturbance.

The quote is from the movie V for Vendetta. It is taken out of context here, but the parallel should be clear. It is right for the government to appeal for calm.

Despite the riot, imposing a curfew, rules on assembly or stricter policing in Little India is asking for trouble.


Why are there so many foreign workers in Little India anyway?

It should not be hard to empathize and understand why. Because Little India feels like home to many foreign workers. And for a few hours at least, a foreign worker can pretend that he is not far away from family and a life he understands and instead in a cold metropolis of glass and steel.

So, why do I think that imposing heavier rules and policing in Little India is a bad idea?

Here's a passage from The Front Runner by Patricia Nell Warren, possibly the most celebrated gay love story ever. The passage is from the protagonist's recollection of the Stonewall riots and I reproduce it here to illustrate what might happen when law enforcement encroaches into a space occupied by a marginalized minority:

"The street was full of cops and flashing red lights.But what was more amazing, the street was full of hundreds of gays, and they were fighting the cops. For years they...submitted to harassments and arrest...But the night of Stonewall, they made the instant visceral decision that they had had enough. They were throwing rocks and bottles...They were fighting New York's Finest with their bare hands.

I watched with growing anger and sorrow. I didn't drink, but those bars were about the only public places where gays could be themselves. No straight could understand how precious they were to us. I had always believed in law and order, supported the police. But those cops were busting me...They were riding over me with their big horses and shoving me into vans handcuffed...

Then an amazing thing happened. I had a rock in my hand, and I threw it."

A enlarged police presence in Little India will likely have the effect of fueling resentment and ironically, may lead to a higher risk for future riots. Yet, some may feel that the government needs to make a show of force to demonstrate it takes public order seriously. I am neither for one or the other. Again, I reiterate. There are no good choices here. Humpty Dumpty lies broken and in pieces.

With what has happened last night, we can only hope that such an incident is a one-off and Singaporeans can put it behind us.

Yet, the disquietude persists.




22 Oct 02:04

Cat Thief Taunts Owner with Letter from the POV of Kidnapped Cat

by Doug Barry

Cat Thief Taunts Owner with Letter from the POV of Kidnapped Cat

There’s a lot of casual evil in the world: people riding two abreast in the bike lane, dentists, people in coach who recline their seat all the way back just when you’re opening your complimentary dime bag of pretzel shavings, and, as of today, people who steal other people’s cats and write gloating missives from the cat’s POV about how much nicer life is in the kidnapper’s lair.

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22 Oct 01:30

DIY Fall Decorations

by swissmiss

DIY Fall Decorations

Just discovered this lovely DIY Fall Decorations post over on the Style Files. Totally going to make some of these this coming weekend.

08 Oct 13:29

Hello Doormat

by swissmiss

Hello Doormat

8-bit Hello Doormat. I approve.

07 Oct 14:51

The Ancients (a photo from the Boing Boing Flickr Pool)

by Xeni Jardin

"The Ancients," by Ben Leshchinsky. "The center of our galaxy, the Milky Way, crowns the ancient statues of Easter Island." Shared in the Boing Boing Flickr Pool.


    






01 Oct 03:07

Holy shit, you guys.

by Laura Beck

Holy shit, you guys. Meet Yogurt the Pirate Dog, our latest Instagram obsession/best friend/Everything.

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24 Sep 06:07

What The Fox Actually Says Is Terrifying

by Neetzan Zimmerman

Since the Norwegian siblings better known as Ylvis released their too-catchy hit song "The Fox" to much fanfare earlier this month, many Google-less individuals have been asking themselves, "so what does the fox say?"

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24 Sep 04:58

Clothes have power over your mind

by Mark Frauenfelder

David McRaney, author of You Are Now Less Dumb and the host of Boing Boing's podcast You Are Not So Smart, made this video about the effect your clothes have on the way you think and behave.


    






20 Sep 06:13

the mrbrown show: the best tuition you can get

by mrbrown
Lisa.cheong

hilarious

Elite_teacher

You have to be the best, to be the best! Learn at mrbrownshow.com.

Play "the mrbrown show: the best tuition you can get"

19 Sep 17:35

Genetic similarity

by Samantha Hahn

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Genetics are so fascinating. Did you ever look at a friend’s child and see your friend’s mannerisms? Do you ever see your mom when you look in the mirror? I love this image of a woman juxtaposed with an image of her grandmother at the same age.

Here are some other interesting projects if you like the above:

  1. People that look exactly alike but are not related by Francois Brunelle
  2. Portraits genetic by Ulric Collette
  3. Watch this video Genealogy by Dutch Mother and Daughter exploring Hereditary Talent
17 Sep 16:51

Here's Baby Capybaras Eating Grass Like They're Lady and the Tramp

by Laura Beck

If lady and the tramp were giant rodents with razor sharp teeth. ADORABLE giant rodents with ADORABLE razor sharp teeth.

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04 Sep 16:50

11 untranslatable words from other countries

by Joanna Goddard
Ella Frances Sanders illustrated untranslatable words from other languages, and they're so lovely...
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04 Sep 16:33

The Instagram Account to End All Instagram Accounts

by Neetzan Zimmerman

The Instagram Account to End All Instagram Accounts

Whether an earnest expression of serious self-love or a clever and calculated jab at modern society's self-parodying obsession with selfies, @mrpimpgoodgame's Instagram account is the only Instagram account that should bother existing.

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04 Sep 09:06

This Supercut of People Almost Kissing Is So Frustrating

by Laura Beck

Just kiss goddammit; JUST KISS ALREADY!

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01 Sep 09:02

Luckiest man alive miraculously survives insane landslide

by Jesus Diaz on KINJA, shared by Gabrielle Bluestone to Gawker

Luckiest man alive miraculously survives insane landslide

This video—captured today by a car dashboard cam in Taiwan—is insane. Watch as the car ahead almost gets crushed by a landslide and then by the insanely gigantic boulder that always smashes Wyle E. Coyote. Check out the other side:

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31 Aug 07:02

Move Over Beyoncé, Cats Can Now Afford Photoshop, Too!

by Laura Beck

Move Over Beyoncé, Cats Can Now Afford Photoshop, Too!

Because your feline isn't fabulous enough already, professional retouchers are now photoshopping away those adorable kitty wrinkles and charming discolored patches.

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22 Aug 02:00

This.

by swissmiss

This

Animated gifs for the win.

(via)

19 Aug 05:22

Preacher Unwittingly Covers Child Discipline Book with Modern Family

by Neetzan Zimmerman

Preacher Unwittingly Covers Child Discipline Book with Modern Family

Doug Sehorne, a hardcore King James Baptist Evangelist who describes himself as an "old-fashioned bible preacher," recently released his latest e-book entitled Bible Principles of Child Discipline from the Book of Proverbs).

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16 Aug 08:03

Female HBO Viewers Demand More Dong

by Erin Gloria Ryan

Female HBO Viewers Demand More Dong

Breast enthusiasts can always rely on HBO's primetime programming to deliver all sorts of boobie shots — top boob. Underboob. Side boob. Areolas of all shapes and sizes. Nip slips. Bouncing boobs. Still boobs. Boobs just, kinda hanging out in the background. One boob, two boobs, red boobs, blue boobs. But male actors on shows like Girls and Boardwalk Empire aren't similarly exposed; in fact, on the preeminent destination for cutting-edge TV, male actors abound, but exposed penises are an endangered species.

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15 Aug 02:47

"Awesome" Police Response to Twitter Plea for Pot Gets Mechanic Fired

by Taylor Berman

"Awesome" Police Response to Twitter Plea for Pot Gets Mechanic Fired

A young Toronto-area mechanic learned a valuable lesson Tuesday when he asked his Twitter followers to deliver a “20 sac chop” of marijuana to his workplace. The York Regional Police spotted the request and tweeted “Awesome" in response, setting off a chain of thousands of retweets that eventually led to the young mechanic's firing.

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12 Aug 13:06

Keep your overhead low

by Austin Kleon

do with less

“The key to eternal happiness is low overhead and no debt.”
—Lynda Barry

Anybody who tells people to “do what you love no matter what” should also have to teach a money management course.

Low overhead + “do what you love” = a good life.

“I deserve nice things” + “do what you love” = a time bomb.

A good life is not about living within your means, it’s about living below your means.

When Instapaper creator Marco Arment was asked about his business model, he said, “I sell an app for money, then I spend less than I make.” Sell something for money, spend less than you make. Is there a better model?

“The trick is,” film executive Tom Rothman says, “from the business side, to try to be fiscally responsible so you can be creatively reckless.”

The 80s underground band The Minutemen used to call this “jamming econo.” They knew the music they wanted to make would probably never be mainstream, so they kept their day jobs, made their records for cheap, learned how to fix their own tour van, and hauled their own equipment.

Live frugally so you can do the work you want to do. Save up some “screw you” money, so you can quit a job you hate to take a job you like better. Turn away venture capital money and bootstrap so you can keep control over your business.

To “jam econo” might not be the flashiest way of life, but it’s the best way to stay free.

[I cut this post from Show Your Work! because it felt too much like the "Keep Your Day Job" section of Steal Like An Artist.]

02 Aug 19:42

Filter Fakers

by swissmiss

Filter Faker

Filter Fakers is a collection of Instagram photos tagged #nofilter, revealing what filter they did in fact use. Makes me think a lot of people don’t know what #nofilter means.

(via @thulme)

18 Jul 11:51

Cashmere, Beetee, and Wiress Looking Good in Latest Catching Fire Promos

by Laura Beck
Lisa.cheong

oooh.

Cashmere, Beetee, and Wiress Looking Good in Latest Catching Fire Promos

However, I pictured BeeTee a little more decrepit than Jeffrey Wright, but those glasses and facial hair are on point. Plus, it's impossible to have too much Jeffrey Wright in your life. And Amanda Plummer? YES.

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17 Jul 18:29

Michael Dunn's Trial Begins in September

by Melissa McEwan
[Content Note: Racism; guns; eliminationist violence.]

Also: In November of last year, I wrote about the murder of 17-year-old Jordan Davis, a black boy who was shot by 45-year-old white man Michael Dunn after Dunn asked the car full of teens in which Davis was a passenger to turn down their music in a public parking lot and they refused. Dunn shot at the car "eight or nine times" and then fled the scene.

Dunn, who "has been charged with first-degree murder in Davis' death and also faces three counts of attempted first-degree murder for shooting at the three others in the vehicle who survived," pleaded not guilty and has claimed self-defense because "he felt threatened."

By a car full of unarmed teenagers in a public parking lot who were listening to music loudly than Dunn wanted.

Dunn's Florida trial is scheduled to begin in September.

Let me reiterate why these laws, which justify murder if the killers can prove they "felt threatened," are wholly unjust: Privileged men—like George Zimmerman, like John Henry Spooner, like Michael Dunn—don't learn how to sit with fear.

One of the things that privilege does is insulate one from legitimate fear.

Most very privileged men—white, straight, cis, able-bodied, middle- or upper-class men—spend their lives without knowing sustained fear. Every person knows individual moments of fear—the sort of fear that grips a human moments before a car accident one can see coming but cannot avoid, or in the moment one begins to choke on a bit of lunch while eating alone, when one isn't sure if a cough will dislodge the intruder. Privilege doesn't insulate any of us from that kind of fear.

But the sustained fear of being hurt, being victimized, being exploited—unexpectedly, at any moment, and most frequently by people one trusts—is something that the very privileged do not know intimately, the way the rest of us do.

Privileged men's lives and the lives of marginalized people are very different in that way—and that difference underlines privileged men asserting that they have a right to feel safe. And law enforcement, and the courts, agreeing with them.

Because of this difference, most marginalized people learn how to live their lives against a backdrop of present threat, to a soundtrack of the dull roar of constant fear. For the most part, we learn to ongoingly process fear as we move through our days on such a subconscious level it's as natural as our hearts beating without conscious thought—women, for example, position our keys in hand as a potential weapon and scan deserted parking lots for signs of danger and size up dates in search of anything dangerous with the ease that we execute any one of thousands of other routine daily tasks.

Privileged men don't understand this reality, and, upon having it explained to them, will often react with disgust, with contempt. They accuse marginalized people of being oversensitive, of having a pessimistic view of the world, of profiling men, and yawn gaslight blah fart.

Fear—or, perhaps, fear management—is a central part of marginalized personhood in a way it is simply not a central part of privileged manhood.

So boys, especially privileged boys, don't learn how to sit with fear the way girls do. We tell boys explicitly not to be afraid; we tell them that being afraid makes you a pussy. They learn that to be afraid is to be like a woman, and to be not a man.

And then we structure the world so that privileged men don't have a lot to be afraid of, so that it is easier to maintain an identity that is rooted in not being fearful, even though fear is a normal part of human experience.

So, there are large parts of the male population in this country who don't know how to process fear. And then there is this entire industry that is dedicated to planting manufactured fear in those very people. The Republican Party. Fox News. Conservative Christianity. A vast weapons industry whose marketing is based on the specious premise that there is Something to be afraid of, Something from which you need to protect yourself.

The same people whose privilege affords them the luxury of never having to learn how to sit with, how to live a life in the echo of, how to process fear are the target demographic for manufactured fear.

And the less privileged among their ranks—the working class men of otherwise undiluted privilege—have real fear about job insecurity or healthcare access or how the fuck they're going to pay the mortgage next month. They are fears that are out of their personal control, and for which the Fear Manufacturers are happy to provide scapegoatsimmigrants and brown people and feminists and kissing boys—lest anyone notice the Fear Manufacturers have been the architects of that real insecurity, too.

What is one to do when one has no capacity to process fear, no ability to sit with it and live with it, no developed strategies for coping with fear?

Well, in a lot of cases, one buys a gun.

And when that doesn't make the fear go away, one buys another one. And another. And another. And magazine clips that shoot more bullets. And more deadly bullets. And so forth and so on.

Only privilege masks the material difference between feeling safe and being safe, to only the latter of which is one actually entitled. A threat to one's privilege is not actually a lack of safety. It's a feeling of insecurity, which is the closest thing to the existential threat with which marginalized people live every day that many privileged men will ever experience.

"He felt threatened." That isn't good enough. It can't be. Not in a culture where we fail utterly to teach privileged male people that it's okay to be afraid, and how to live with fear.

Fear is a part of a mortal life. Only privilege makes it seem like it could ever be otherwise.
17 Jul 08:16

In search of: The 52 Hz Whale

by Maggie Koerth-Baker
This fall, a team of scientists (backed up by a crew of documentary filmmakers) will head out to the Pacific in search of "The Loneliest Whale in the World", aka "The 52 Hz Whale", in honor of the unique frequency of its vocalizations.
    


17 Jul 07:49

Ms Matilda

by kris atomic
Lisa.cheong

shaggy cat

Matilda

Yesterday’s post made me realise that it had been an unforgivably long time since I posted anything in the Matilda category. So, here are some recent glamour shots. She likes to lounge, especially in this weather.

Matilda

Matilda

Matilda

Matilda